the one who got it going on has a great job a real nice car is independent and has no bagage.The other has a kid which I love and who loves to be with me, he has an O.K job and car. he has potential to be great and I really like him BUT I can't deal with the baby mama drama. what to do who to choose?
2006-06-08 11:43:36 · 18 answers · asked by miki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
grow up and stop being so materialistic and choose the guy who makes you feel emotionally fufilled
2006-06-08 11:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by maj_lamda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i was you i would pick the one wit the okay job becuase the other one will probally end up wit some other chick be cuase he got a nice car and job and you need to learn how to deal wit the baby mama drama becuase it happens and that baby loves you and don't just drop him and go for the other guy becuaes people say that a kid can only truly love one mama!!!
2006-06-08 11:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A similar thing happened to me many wonderful years ago...you must be lookin' pretty hot and giving a cool vibe right about now!! Good. Fun. Well, I
tried to FEEL the guys out - you know: chemistry wise. I chose the one with less shade and less drama. It was the right choice. Since you are attracted to both, just save yourself the concern and go with the freer one. NOTHING against single parents, but totally pro-dramaless love.
2006-06-08 11:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Miki...
If you fall in love with potential, then you have to be willing to ride it out to the end.
But I have one question,
Why choose? Just don't make a commitment to date one of them exclusively, and you don't have to choose until some time has passed and you can assess the situation better.
2006-06-08 11:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kathleen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your looking for a realationship guy #2 because he knows what its about. Fun on the town guy #1, but don't expect anything serious. He probably does'nt want any tie downs regaurdless of what he tells you to get in your panties.
2006-06-08 11:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by mailmenudes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the one who is a nice guy and doesn't get in to lots of trouble.
If one drinks or smokes I wouldn't go out with that one.
Glory
2006-06-08 11:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by apw_lovedove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind about which one and no it is not workable as you may soon find out. Just remember do unto other as you have others do unto you.
2006-06-08 11:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you can do is stay away from both of them, and stop being a money hungry ho.you know, they are both two men, with feelings, who unfortunately might actually be falling in love with someone horrible like you.
2006-06-08 11:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with both...give it time...see which way you go. Obviously we can't help you...it's gotta come from your heart. I am a father of two girls though, and kids can be great fun, you just have to get used to them.
2006-06-08 11:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore both. Meet me. Choose me.
Just kidding. It seems you like the second, hence choose him.
2006-06-08 11:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 + 2x = baby
2006-06-08 11:47:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋