ok so this girl in my grade is jealous of me cause i'm going out with her ex boyfriend...don't get me wrong my boyfreind is a great guy..but the thing is there's this situation going on between me and his ex....she thinks i've been calling her a b i t c h but i haven't been....and she keeps IMing me and insulting me and threatening me but i'm not scared of her...my boyfriend knows about the whole situation but he won't do anything about it but i think that he should at least stand up for me and say something to her...what do you think? i could really use your help!?!?!
2006-06-08 11:20:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why should a guy get involed in your battle? REMEMBER...he is her ex!!! He should have NOTHING more to do w/ her...
2006-06-08 11:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by vickififi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him if he really cares about you then why doesn't he say something? Does he like her? If he doesn't than it should be no problem,if he does than something else strange is going on. You need to take a stand also and remain calm do not yell when you stay calm noone likes it and they get madder. Tell he say "Look I have nothing against you so why are you calling me names? Isn't he not going out with you anymore?" Now I would make sure he still doesn't have any left over feelings for her cause maybe that is why he is not so quick to jump in and defend you.
2006-06-08 18:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by dracopi24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds really petty but is the b-friend worth all of this? That is what you should really be asking yourself because there maybe another guy wishing to be with you, who will stand up for you at anytime! Think about it ; )
2006-06-08 18:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by B-Fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think u should stand up to her and say-
hey you, yea u, i nvr caled u a b**** but now i can b/c its the truth. WHO DO U THINK U ARE?
then if she punches u punch her twice as hard rite in the face
she has no right 2 do that 2 u
2006-06-08 18:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by strongrock24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same has happened here with me and he wont say anything, when i asked him why he said that he dosent like getting involved into girl probelms. it pissed me off but yea imagine if he did get in, it might make it worse who knows. i say you tell her to stop being a P U S S Y and beat the crap out of her when you see her. i hate girls like her uhhhhh
2006-06-08 18:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Destiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend shouldn't stand up to her, because he cannot fight her..well verbally he could. But, you should stand up to her next time you see her and tell her to knock it off. If she keeps it up, do not be afraid to stick up for yourself and to put up a fight if necessary. Let her be jealous.
2006-06-08 18:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by sportsman172 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should call her a b*i*t*c*h and since your not scared of her dont worry about it shes just mad that you are with her ex and shes not...so bask in the glory that your man chose you and leave her to be jelous...shell get over it.
2006-06-08 18:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jesika G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to the girl that you havent been saying anything then dump the guy as any guy who loves his girl would never put up with this.
2006-06-08 18:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by maj_lamda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she needs to chill and its her fault she lost a great guy. she sounds like a b i t c h so your lucky to have him cuz she wants him bak. just block her screen name and tell her to bak off. but ya your boyfriend should tell her to bak off and to leave you alone
2006-06-08 18:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your man that the fact that he isnt standing up for you in this situtation is really making you mad
2006-06-08 18:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by *!*AmBeR*!* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋