I was arrested for domestic violence a few months ago. This is my second offence within 7 years. I didn't beat up my girlfriend she attack me and trying to calm her down again, but of course I was the one who got put in jail. Well, I made bail and now my case is pending with the District Attorney’s. I haven't seen a judge yet and it could be awhile before I do since they are so backed up. I am hooked on pain pills and I know this could contribute to our fights, so I was wondering should I get my self into rehab before I see a judge so that maybe he will be a little more lenient on me when it comes to my charges? If I do go to jail how long will I be in for? Also, could I check myself into rehab knowing that my charges are still pending? I can’t afford an attorney right now.
2006-06-08 10:58:45 · 9 answers · asked by alta 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
How long is rehab and do I get to leave on the weekends?
2006-06-08 11:21:11 · update #1
You should go into rehab anyway, you obviously know you have a problem. It should be done because of the problem not because you may get a lighter sentence. Talk to someone about your pain pills you may need something else.
2006-06-08 11:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by getting warmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you can check yourself into rehab with pending charges. And you should. You should get yourself off of the pills if you believe it to be a problem. And yes, the judge will most likely be more lenient on you. I went through the same thing when I was 20, except it was for a dlivery of LSD charge (lesson learned, just young and dumb). Attorney is a really good idea, if you can ever afford one. If not, a court appointed one is better than nothing, but you never know what you are getting or if he gives a sh**. I would have someone keep an eye on the mailbox and contact the court if you get an appearance date. You really dont have contact with anyone when you are in residential rehab. They want yo to focus on yourself, not outside worries. Even if you are expected in court and dont go because you were in rehab, the judge will respect that you went and are trying to change your life. Good Luck my man!!!!
2006-06-08 18:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, get rid of the girlfriend. Obviously, the two of you are bad together. Second, get some help to get off the pain pills. Start by seeing your doctor and admitting you have a problem. Ask for help. Try out patient counseling or group therapy, those are usually cheap options. You must WANT to deal with the problem, though, or nothing you do will help. Dependency starts in your own mind. If rehab is your only choice and you really want to change, go for it. Just let someone know to show up in court for you when the time comes so that they can tell the judge that you are getting help.
2006-06-08 19:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get a court appointed lawyer. Yes, you should go to rehab, you need to free yourself from the pain pills. The judge will take into consideration the fact that you took the first step in getting help for your addiction. It would hurt to get into some type of anger management class or domestic violence class although you feel that you are not at fault.
2006-06-08 18:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by Amy P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately go to rehab. If you do get it done before your hearing for your charges the judge might take it into consideration. Also, I dont know your full situation with your GF, but if you went to jail then someone pressed charges, am I right? If it was your GF maybe you might consider finding someone else that wont put you in the situations that get you into trouble?
2006-06-08 18:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by Aurora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in rehab now and i'm only 14 and i was hooked on weed and meth!!! i have to stay here for 4 years untill i'm 18 yippy not really!!! I got arrested also cause of someone i love my ****** up brother who loves to beat me!!! I was trying to make him stop and with me doing so i took an brick and smashed his head into it and he lived damnit!!!! anyways just depends are you over 18 if so you only have to be in there for like 2 months so your lucky!!! 4 years 2 months 6 days and 12 hours!!!!
2006-06-08 18:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have an addiction, you need to go to rehab as soon as possible. You could be behaving badly and not even realize it. Get help.
2006-06-08 18:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a public defender if you don't have money for a consultation with a lawyer... you're in deep s*** dude!
2006-06-08 18:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by shay2n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunooooooo but you right about it your in a ton of ****! not lol
2006-06-08 18:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋