Up until september I would consider myself a thug. I smoked weed all day drank all night. I sold crack for a living in the projects on the westside of Chicago. I gangbang, Im all tatted up. I was shot when I was 14, stabed when I was 17, spent a little time in County jail at 19 (Thats how I got kicked outta college). I had my jaw broken and head bussed in a gang fight when I was 21. Back then women used to love me. I was just that dude that women couldnt help but want to be with. When I went to college for a couple years (On a athletic scolarship) all these wemen wanted to be my lady because I was just so "hood". Black chicks, white chicks, Asian, and hispanic chicks. I used to have a lot of sex as a freshman in college 3somes (2 Chicks), and tripples and doubles in one day.
However, since I started to grow up less women are after me. I have a job working in Corprate america, a nice car (Not those '87 chevy Caprices I used to ride with the 4 12"speakers in the back and the chrome.
2006-06-08 10:57:05 · 12 answers · asked by Dr. Love 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the record im 22 years old.
And this is the 2nd time Ive asked this question (just wanted more feedback)
2006-06-08 11:07:58 · update #1
All guys go though a stage were they are bad guys and girls love them because of there protection cause they think a bad boy can protect them, what u have to do is make sure a girl knows that u can protect them that you are not just some Coprate person. I think its great that you stopped all that u were doing and got a job thats lets dangerous, and also u have to learn that as u get older the women get smarter and the sex might stop.
GOD bless you
2006-06-09 10:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jetta C 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well since you have grown up so much, are you still lookin for the threesomes every day, 4 or 5 different women a day?(good way to get sick), or are you lookin to find 1 good woman? maybe you should try finding an older woman well maybe not older we'll just say mature, cause usually it's the young dumb chicks that fall for the thugs and their lead no where life styles.I must admit the thug image is very sexy to a lot of women I think it has to do with liken the" ruff necks"and the misinterpretation that thug = strong man, protector, what not. I would now much rather be with a man who is headed in the right direction.and can have my back in the long run.
2006-06-08 11:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by btre22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems kinda like it is dangerous and sometimes thrilling to be with someone who you described. Some women enjoy the excitement of the idea, partly because the relationship isn't stable or ever boring. Kinda like , being on a rollercoaster, ya never know if you'll enjoy the ride or not.
2006-06-08 11:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by jacks_girl618 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's more of a story than a question, but if you want to know why they don't like you, its because they're growing up to and realizing the 'bad boys' are bad company. Most of them are trying to find husband material, not (ex)jail birds.
2006-06-08 11:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are being serious about all of this, first I commend you for going back to school & gettin an education, good job and such. Secondly I dont really know what you are asking? Are you just telling your story?
2006-06-08 11:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mz_AmanDA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because woman your age are interested in starting a family and want someone who is ready to do that too.Also they might think you would influnce kids yours or not in a bad way.
2006-06-08 11:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 05:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that less women like you. You're probably working so much now that you see less of them. Or maybe they like you differently cause you look and act different...that's all. But you sound cool to me.
2006-06-08 11:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the thing...Good girls like bad boys it's just something about the thug in them.
2006-06-08 11:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
r u serious??? maybe u need more personality now.
how old r u?
2006-06-08 11:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋