This is a totally serious question..?

Question

What makes you happy? I am really starting to think I will never actually be happy again. Have you ever had the same feeling?

Answer 1

What makes me happy? well, talking with people I feel are really listening and sharing our differences and things we have in commmon.. sometimes, I think i'll never be really happy again because I RARELY get out of the house.. and I need to do this! If you can come up with a plan.. maybe we'll both go out to soomewhere new (or old).. and we can compare notes? I do run a small home-based business so I do see people every day.. but they're just not really friends (tho they do treat me as a friend) and I could use a real friend who doesn't whine about everything!
Really, if you come up with a good answer, let me know, ok?
Best wishes!

Answer 2

Feeling that you will never actually be happy again is a sign of depression. People often go in and out of depressions but don't want to see a Doctor because they don't want medication. It sounds to me like you need to do a life clean up. Make a list of all the things that are making you unhappy, then beside them list suggestions on how you can change the unhappy to happy! For example, if you don't like your job, list some jobs that you would find more interesting or fulfilling. Only you can make the necessary changes in your life and to do that, you have to dare to dream! No one can take your dreams from you so just let go and dream big. Imagine the car you would LOVE to drive, imagine the places in the world you would LOVE to see. Nothing is impossible, you just need to get positive ideas in your head and then go about achieving them.
I could talk to you about this all day! LOL...but I won't...let me know if you would like more information on changing negatives to positives...I'd be glad to help.

Answer 3

Yes, when I felt like failing at school, and my hopes for a good colleges were vanishing into think air, I felt like my future's roads were crumbling, and I had no hope or hapiness whatsoever. I talked to people, and they helped me with schoolwork and consuled with me. Now I feel really better. Sometimes, talkign to people works, but for me, I let the time heal and never do anything rash. You know you'll regret it later if you do... whenever you feel like happiness if vanishing, just remember- life is more than one moment of sadness. Sometimes, I like to do dares that challenge me and make my life refreshing! If you do the same things over and over again... well, there's no fun in it! go to dances, hang out with friends, go to the mall (it's ok if you're a guy!) or any hobbies. Music is a great vent for emotion.

Answer 4

Just letting go and being in the moment. That is the "happiness" you feel.

Otherwise, focusing on the grand distance between where you are and where you're going, in terms of yeah, this day sucked, but you have your health, your friends, and whatever it is that makes you, well, you. All the gruntling is temporary.

EMBRACE YOUR INNER SMURF!!

Answer 5

This is the way to slowly analyze your life. You know what happiness is and you don't have it. I am willing to bet someone has shown you what they want you to like and you don't like it. Come on open your mouth and speak up.

Answer 6

Check out (http://www.reducingstress.net ) there is a lot of great content, information articles, expert advice and links on the subject there.

Answer 7

awww, that's sad. do you have a dog? if not, get one. or get a really good friend. your happy when you know some1 cares about you. dont let your unhappiness ruin your life

Answer 8

well, i like to go to church... that always lifts me up becuase you know that at least one person loves you unconditionally no matter what