i have a friend that has gf now he wants be cheat with me we have only know each other for a month what todo?

Question

him and his gf have been together 4 8yrs and they have a child and live together. but he says that thinks have been rocky 4 a year. I know that it might be a lie. but i do like him

Answer 1

You can't do that to your friend. He is going behind your firends back, and its going to wreck yoru friedship. As much asyou like him, I'm sorry, but I think its the wrong thing to do.

Answer 2

Well do you want her to hate you? Do you want people to talk about you? I'm guessing your answer is no. Just beacuse things aren't perfect in their relationship, it doesn't give him a right to seek a way out by cheating. Remember, they have a child together. Just because they aren't married doesn't mean they aren't a family. How would you feel knowing that a family was torn apart because of you? Would you want that baby to grow up feeling resentment towards you because you cheated with it's daddy? I don't think so. It's not fair to anyone involved if you cheat with him. He's with her, he had a baby with her, and now you see how he's acting. Why would you want to be with someone who will do that to the people who are suppossed to mean the most to him. No relationship is perfect, but cheating is not going to make it better but it will make it worse. It's ok for you to be his friend, especially when life gets hard for him. But don't go beyond that and make sure he knows where you stand. Good Luck and best wishes!

Answer 3

Now you have to think about how you are going about dealing with this problem cause what gose around comes back to you. And it's so true, alot of people dont see it that way but it's true. The bottom line is that he is with somebody else they have a child think about how will that effect that child without both parents not being together, cause of you. You want to know the worst part of it all is that if you decide not to get involed with this person, more than likely he will find somebody else to cheat with.

Answer 4

The question you need to ask yourself is how would you feel if you were the girlfriend and your boyfriend cheated on you? Wouldn't you feel upset and like crap? I know that is how I would feel. So why do you want to cause someone else that kind of pain. Also there is a child in the mix.

Also do you really want to be the other woman?

Like him or not he is in a relationship and that means hands off. In my head if someone is in a relationship or married that aren't on the market.

Answer 5

You need to tell your friend that you will not start a relationship with him while he is seeing someone seriously. If you are both interested, then tell him he needs to end it with the other girl first. This is for your best interest too. Do you think you could ever trust him later? If he is willing to cheat on his current girlfriend, what will you be five years from now if you two hook up. And why would he treat you differently?

Answer 6

...tempting?...him?.... maybe...but good ethical moral behavior though sweetie?....that's up to you reasonably enough. My theory is your friend in all honesty has a deep unassuming character flaw if he wants to cheat on his girlfriend. You don't really wanna be a part of his cheating ways and this cheating scenario...do you? I despise most cheaters of any kind anyways...don't you too? They're classless lowlife relationship and heart disturbers otherwise You'll just simply end up looking as bad as he's gonna be looking soon here sweetie. My theory is you don't need to be a part of his lackluster self centered dishonest behavior otherwise. ...are we in agreement sister? Email me back if we're not..ok?

Answer 7

wait for them to break it off. he may be feeding you that story just to get sympathy. think of how the gf might be feeling. would you want him to dump you or just straight up cheat? just because he says things are rocky, doesn't mean she thinks they are!

Answer 8

Sounds like a genuine kinda guy...NOT...Don't do it. Think about how you would feel if you were the current girl, and this was done to you

Answer 9

1. a month?-THAT'S a solid friendship
2. if he cheats w/ you, he'll cheat on you.
3. the rest goes according to your moral fiber-(I can't tell you where your own morality stands)

Answer 10

u need to walk away from it and realize he is a creep. he is dishonest. it is one thing if he broke up with her but remember what comes around goes around. how would u like it if it happened to you?