cuz of his mom he wants him to take her to austin cuz of her mom she not feeling good she knows he was going to come this weekend his mom dont like me i dont care. he always came every weekend and picked us up me and my boyfriend are trying to make it work we have 1son and i'm 5 months preg. i've been crying all day cuz he not going to see his son.
2006-06-08 10:23:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Is he your boyfriend or your husband? Also punctuation and grammar goes a long way because I have no idea what you are tying to say.
2006-06-08 10:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me I know from watching my mother go through this.
Marry this man against his mother's will. Don't let her get in the way. Get your own house. If it still doesn't work, Divorce him. get an attorney and sue him for half his money and custody of the kids. Make sure if you buy a house or car put your name under it. Then find a man who knows your situation. ANd cares for you and your kids. Always protects your children. Remember that. It may be a long process but in the end everyone will be happy. Your man's a mamma's boy. And he!! no will you allow that.
2006-06-22 15:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your husband, why are you and your boyfriend trying to make it work? And if he is your husband how come he doesn't live with you? where does your boyfriend live? Why do you have a husband and boyfriend? Guess I'm nosy. Why do you have a child and pregnant and crying because your husband is taking his mom to Austin? Go to Austin with them, and get rid of the boyfriend.
2006-06-22 12:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by Grandma Susie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you got me a little confused on your question. Usually I can answer them but I am unsure about this one. For one thing, is he your husband or boyfriend. Are you talking about the same guy or do you have a boyfriend too? If you love the guy go to him and be with him. I am sorry you are so upset and crying. You must love the guy. If you want, go to him and ignore his mama.
2006-06-22 13:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't show ur weakness on him....
JUST BE CONFIDENT ... that what u have .... is quite enough... so many are in much bad conditions... but try to realize him about U and UR SON... don't give stress to him...but try to convince him on what he was once when u was happy...
actually man come under stress when they have so many obligations... and they need a relaxing partner for them.... who takes life as light as they take ... but girls are not like that they take life serious and every thing serious... so try to attract him not to bound him ... i hope it will work n he will start paying attention to u within few months u will feel better... n he will start paying attention to U as well Ok.... don't bother more than required ok
let others be happy so that u will remain happy...
do tell me when u will be happy with ur FAMILY :)
ok
BEST OF LUCK
YO YO YO YO YO YO
2006-06-22 15:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by Andria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't show ur weakness on him....
JUST BE CONFIDENT ... that what u have .... is quite enough... so many are in much bad conditions... but try to realize him about U and UR SON... don't give stress to him...but try to convince him on what he was once when u was happy...
actually man come under stress when they have so many obligations... and they need a relaxing partner for them.... who takes life as light as they take ... but girls are not like that they take life serious and every thing serious... so try to attract him not to bound him ... i hope it will work n he will start paying attention to u within few months u will feel better... n he will start paying attention to U as well Ok.... don't bother more than required ok
let others be happy so that u will remain happy...
do tell me when u will be happy with ur FAMILY :)
ok
BEST OF LUCK
2006-06-18 18:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by sarah m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pack myself and the kid up with this boyfriend/ husband and join him on his trip to AUSTIN. Let the granma see her grandchild. You don't have to like this woman, just be civil. By showing up shows you are there and let's the b/f/husband know that you are a part of his life.
2006-06-22 06:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell you the truth some men's mother loves to cause trouble for the people they are in a relationship with. They are to nosy and to interfering. If I was you I would tell him if he loves you he will keep his plans with you. If he doesn't, then he needs to let you know, so you can find a man who will love you and want to spend time with you.
2006-06-22 16:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by maxine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's not coming because he has to do something for a family member (his mom or grandmom?), then you shouldn't have a problem with that. As a matter of fact, you would show him a lot of support if you offered to go with them. It would show your concern and respect for him and his family.
2006-06-18 15:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mary C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his mom doesn't like you...i know that has got to be rough...but just be tough...he knows you love him and he will come and see you...let him take his mom...don't let it bother you...just love him and take him as he is...his mom is always going to be a part of his life and so are you and the kids...his mom will just have to realize this...and she does...maybe that's what she don't like...your taking her son so to speak...but just pray about it and it will all come together....but let him take his mom....he will come and see you the next weekend....your in my prayers...
2006-06-22 16:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by monkeytail_77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋