There is a woman that I really like, however, she is not ready to go out on a date with me (or anyone else for that matter). On the other hand there is another woman that I like only as a friend but is willing to go out with me. Is it OK to date her even though my feelings are really for the other woman or should I just continue to get to know the woman that I like until she is willing to go out with me?
2006-06-08 10:10:07 · 14 answers · asked by Joe K 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your friend is willing to go out with you because she actually likes you than more than a friend, it would be horrible of you to go out with her, because it's leading her on. But if you think there is a chance you could end up liking the friend only girl, as more than a friend then give her a shot and forget about the other woman. But don't use your friend for selfish reason. I'm going through something similar, and I AM THE FRIEND and my feelings are hurt now because I was used in a way. I'll forgive him, but I won't forget it either. SO think wisely about your decision.
2006-06-08 10:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you only like her as friends, then keep it that way. It will only end up in hurt and needless pain if your dating some girl, leading her on... and then when that other girl whome you actually DO want to date is rdy, you'll have to leave the one you just got involved with. Save yourself the drama and tell the one you just want friends and nothing more. If you are desperate, you could always ask if she wants just friends with benefits... but that can end up bad in the long run as well.
2006-06-08 17:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get to know the one you like better. If she see you trying harder for her, then mabye she'll go out with you. But if she finds out your with another lady while liking her at the same time, then she might never go out with you cuz she might think you're not serious about her.
2006-06-08 17:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by gorgeousLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, call the one you want to be with and ask her whats up. Maybe she's ready to see you and waiting for the call.
2006-06-08 17:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a big no no.. don't go out with the other girl that you really don't like 'coz you'll just lead her on and you'll end up hurting her feelings
2006-06-08 17:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by honeylick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont play with a persons feelings. in my opinion try to get to know the person you actually have feelings for.
2006-06-08 17:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course have fun wile ur young just not 2 much
2006-06-08 17:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by cami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not ok to do that, why lead the other girl on when you don't want to be with her.
2006-06-08 17:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok...even though it wont feel right.
2006-06-08 17:13:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart or which ever you like the best
2006-06-08 17:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by jjd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋