Im a woman and so is the friend that im interested in. I've never been with a woman but I always wanted to. I think she has but I'm not entirely sure. She has no idea that I am attracted to women and I dont know what the approach is for this situation. Any suggestions.
2006-06-08 09:47:59 · 9 answers · asked by prettylady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We've been very good friends for 6 years now.
2006-06-08 09:56:08 · update #1
I would say if you are not for sure about her sexual perference you may not want to go there. Just for the simple fact you may be taking a risk on losing a friendship so I would suggest give a little more thought before you throw all the cards on the table.
2006-06-08 09:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by missie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"So I was watching a talk show the other day and there was this actress -- I don't remember her name -- talking about how she had to do a big sexy screen kiss with another woman. And the host asked her what it was like, and she said it was pretty nice because the woman she kissed was all soft and smelled good and the whole experience was really pleasant! Well, anyway, I haven't been able to stop thinking about kissing another woman, though I don't suppose I'll ever find out what it's like... What do you think?"
That leaves you with an out in case she goes "Eeeeew, I could never kiss another woman," but it leaves her the perfect opportunity to say, "Well, it feels kind of like this..." and she shows you what it's like.
Disclaimer: I'm a guy, and I talk too much But go for it!
2006-06-08 10:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, try to see if she is bi or lesbian. What are her parthjers? What is she interested in?
Second, compliment her and build strong relationship.
Third, If you feel the relationship is strong enough,, make a move.
Let the fouth step be yours'!
2006-06-08 09:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by coolcat123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for women, the best approach is from the rear. just like with men.
2006-06-08 09:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel if u like her jus go up 2 her and ask her if she would be interested in goin on a date wit u
2006-06-08 09:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by rena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a surprise, aggressive girl on girl kiss and see how she reacts. You only live once.
2006-06-08 09:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by comfort eagle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if she is a lesbian or bisexual? If not you should find out first. . or try to at least. Become her friend first and see if there are spark . . . .
2006-06-08 09:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by zeenarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it ....... hint at the conversation until you get the information you are looking for...... Just come out and ask her if she has ever done it, or what she thinks about it.
2006-06-08 09:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by soccerplayinjuggalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she thinks your gay? well maybe you should set her straight about it and tell her that your straight and you want to take her out for coffee or something.
2006-06-08 09:52:22 · answer #9 · answered by HeatherlyLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋