Should i go and find a bit on the side?

Question

got a lovely mrs, but a bit bored tho. dont want to break up cos its meant to be, just young and gotta smash the granny out of some more birds before i end up married.
there is no doubt about my mrs on the love front, but i'v always been a quantity rather than quality kinda guy on the sex side.
cheers. dont bother bible bashin or preechin, and i know you americans take the whole std thing way too seriusly.

she wont dump me, its on lock you know

good answer rand-olph, but i been faithful for 2 years now, so i know its easily done. its not a matter of self control, hence the question. i want to make an educated decision which is why i thought i'd get some opinions on here. cheers

Answer 1

If your sex drive is higher than that of your wife.. perhaps you should seek out marital counseling or sex counseling. There may be reasons behind the differing drives.

If she is not "freaky" enough for you, that could also be addressed in counseling.

However, I don't believe you have earned the right to get some on the side... that comes with work. Paperwork. *divorce*

I'm very sorry that you have gotten to the point in your life that you would ruin someone else's just to get off. That is one of the most selfish things I have heard in quite some time.

If you don't believe it would hurt her, start a thread on people's opinions on those who cheat.. you'll get even more angry responses than you did in this one.

If you honestly cannot get enough sex, masturbate.

Answer 2

You seem like the type of guy that likes a challenge, well here it is. Can you be faithful, personally I'm a quality over quantity cause I got tired of being with average women for no real reason. So now I take the faithful route only becasue most men can't control themselves. I bet you could if you wanted to but you gots to look at what you want, be like any other guy thats has to do what he has to do, or be your own man and does what he wants with his woman. Essentially all us men need is one woman. You just have to find ways to trigger her in to being the sexual godess or naughty school student, or controling Mistress or what ever fantasy you want. You got some game dawg I can tell so stop wasting it on average chicks and use it to it's full potential on your girl. Hows that for a preechy american.

Answer 3

All aspects should have been pleasing to you before getting married. (Especially the sex) And I don't get it, are you married, yet or not? First you said "I got a lovely Mrs." Then you said "Before I end up married". If I were you, I'd sew my oats, now and take time out to find out if you want to be married or not, because believe me, after you're married, it will only get worse.

Answer 4

Leave her. There is no way she is "meant" for you if you want to cheat. You are just trying to play games with her, be a man and let her go to be happy with a true love.

Answer 5

Sittin here thinkin the Mrs, Might need to re-evaluate her love interest in you.

Answer 6

i did that to my ex for two years and probably 15-20 girls until she finally caught me. i felt just like you at the time and i thought i had it on lock until i fell asleep one day and she went through my phone. i'll just tell you this, you will eventually get caught and you are going to feel terrible when you see how bad it hurts her feelings. so, you decide. sounds like you still need to get some variety.

Answer 7

i dont blame you one bit ( and i cant stand the bible bashers either! they dont know how to have fun in life)... the only thing i can say is cover your a*s... dont ever let her catch you!

Answer 8

Lol.
If she's the one, it shouldn't matter.
As is, I say no, you shouldn't.
Not biblical, not preaching, just my opinion. Based solely on my morality.
So...no.

Answer 9

ok your a dog, if i were her and new what u are up to i would dump your ***.

Answer 10

ok then...