I broke up with this guy (boy 1) for another guy (boy2) and now I cheated on boy 2 with boy 1 but I was planning on braking up with boy 2 anyways so should I tell him or not? please help.
2006-06-08 09:26:25 · 11 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope! Don't tell him. Just do what you do, and don't let either one of them know about the other one.
2006-06-08 09:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by CTargrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why tell him? Are you trying to really hurt this guy? Look at it in reverse if this was a guy breaking up with you, would you rather him say that this isn't working for him, I respect you and wish you well. Or, would you rather hear I slept with this girl I dated before you?? Take the higher road, obviously there was not going to be a future why hurt some one unnecessarily?
2006-06-08 16:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never tell anyone that you cheated on them. You'll only be doing it to ease your own conscience and that is selfish. You've already cheated, don't be selfish too. Instead, spare his feelings, he doesn't need to know since you are breaking up with him. Deal with you guilt in a different way.
2006-06-08 16:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get them both in a room and say:
"Well I just wanted to let you guys know that I am a s1ut who just can't decide who I want to have sex with more. Will you guys fight over me please."
Hopefully they will both leave your pathetic azz. And girls always complain about guys being lying cheats, ha.
2006-06-08 16:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should always be honest. Even if you were going to break up with 2, he still deserves to know that you were unfaithful.
2006-06-08 16:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by jenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that you were cheating on him
NEVER TELL A GUY THAT
it means that you're not happy with only him so you resorted to someone else .......... that'd just KILL HIM!!
2006-06-08 16:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell him, just dump him... if he should happen to find out oh well, but you dont have any need to volunteer the info.
2006-06-08 16:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should make up your mind, go with your heart, the next thing you think is what you should do
2006-06-08 16:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Pretty Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt tell him. if he likes you and you like him, he may not want to know that and that may rethink the two of you
2006-06-08 16:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by goldenfour7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him
a lest you will be honest
2006-06-08 16:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋