If so WHAT can you do?
2006-06-08 08:52:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say, don't think much about it. Don't sink to their level by getting revenge. I've had a lot of heart break in my life and you know what? I"ve always been taught that, revenge is a losers way out. To get them back 10 times better is to better yourself. Image this.
Your boyfriend breaks up with you and you're lower than low. Instead of taking revenge, you better yourself by getting a better paying job, or a better boyfriend who really loves you and you're really happy. Then he'll see and say, wow, OMG, I lost a good girl all to my stupid self. That you, you won't just hurt him physical or emotionaly, you'll do all that and more by crushing his ego and destroying his thoughts about you that you were a bad catch.
Hope this helped.
2006-06-08 09:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by dukeofhmong 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you weren't married. So unless they took a vehicle or your house(know someone it happened to.) FORGET ABOUT IT! Life happens, accept it, move on. Otherwise you may be missing the person you need right in front of you.
Trust me...I've learned from 2 bad experiences that cost me nearly $10,000. If it didn't work, It didn't work. That's life and If you're already apart or disattached it's over anyhow, move on and be better than the one you were with.
2006-06-08 09:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by blackwolf917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You can't change what kind of person they are (scumbag, LOL) but you have control over what kind of person you are. Take the high road, be more mature than they are and you won't have any regrets later on.
But the best one I've ever heard of is sewing like shrimp into the hem of the curtains. It'll stink to high heaven. When they can't find the source of the smell, they'll move and take the curtains (and the smell) with them. Classic. But immature....but classic (LOL).
2006-06-08 09:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by iam1funnychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You will only end up feeling worse, revenge is never worth it. Totally ignoring the person who hurt you, and going on with your life like they never existed will hurt them more.
2006-06-08 08:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got free will but revenge is not always the best that you can do ignorence makes more hurting forsomeone has caused you hb so :if you want to do the first way go ahead never forget you got free will
2006-06-08 09:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends. But revenge never solves anything, you still feel the same, and everything is still the same.
2006-06-08 08:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Its not worth the trouble. You would be lowering yourself to do that....even though it's very tempting.
2006-06-08 08:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by NightHowler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what did they do?
2006-06-08 08:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋