we have been togather for 1 month and he wants to take it to a new level
2006-06-08 08:50:49 · 46 answers · asked by sk8erpunk9845 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes break up with him. He is not good for you.
2006-06-08 08:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by jacksfullhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for him, don't break up! All boys want to have sex with their girlfriends. There would be a problem if he hadn't ask you to do it. If your conversations go nowhere, maybe you have to change your behavior. If until now you are used to fight for having sex, change your point of view. Hug him, talk to him in a sweet way and tell him that you are not ready for that.
Ask him to give you time and for you it's too early to have sex. Explain him what exactly you are afraid, make him understand. By just telling him that you don't want to have sex, you don't make him understand what's your real problem.
The last and the most important is to tell him that you really understand how he feels and how he wants you!
2006-06-08 09:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you should break up with him. Its doesn't sound like he is in the relationship for love. Me and my boyfriend (husband now) didn't have sex 11/2 years because I wasn't ready to have sex for the first time.
2006-06-08 08:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by chansmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he's just moveing faster in the relationship than you are. mayde you guys can comprimise. like he any part of your body and vise- versa. or you can have a substitute for sex .like him laying on top of you with him in he's underwear. but you guys have only been going for 1 month you need to let the relationship grow because by rushing things can lead to STD's and pregnancy and ultimately destroying the relationship. so i feel just wait it out until your ready and if he really loved you he wouldnt be pressuring you to have sex. Wait until you think you're ready. but dont leave him.
2006-06-08 08:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Khadijah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him and the only thing wrong is that he wants to have sex and you dont, then dont let that get in the way. Tell him your not ready. If he still pressures you AFTER you say your not ready then yes, BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!
2006-06-08 08:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by ny_runner23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to quick.
He might be a bad boy. Bad boys can only play one hat when a real man can play many hats. They are selfish too.
Building trust is important before sex. This involves open communication, a genuine friendship and lots of TLC inbetween.
Remember , both of you have to agree to sex before anything can happen. This also includes open communication and friendship too.
2006-06-08 08:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk with him first before you break with him. Tell him your problem i think he will understand. If he still forces you then you can think of breaking up.
Another thing is today or tomorrow you are going to hav sex with somebody (at least) so if you like him and he likes you i don see any downside.
2006-06-08 08:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by No One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...but you need to set the ground rules with him if you don't plan on doing it sometime soon. MAny guys don't understand a woman that wants to wait to have sex
2006-06-08 10:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready and he keeps pressuring you, then you should break up with him. You don't need that kind of pressure. There are a lot of guys out there that are willing to wait til you are ready.
2006-06-08 08:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes, Because if he keep pushing you into doing something that you do not want to do, then he is not the guy for you, If he was he would be there for you until you are ready.
2006-06-08 08:57:45 · answer #10 · answered by shawtyp0000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay... he wants to have sex and you don't
has he pressured you into it or did he talk to u?
if he pressured u then if i were u i would break up with him.. no girl should ever be pressured into sex.
if he didn't then i wouldn't break up with him just yet... he may realize that your not ready and back off from having sex and wait till your ready.
think about it carefully b4 u do anything.
do u love him?...
2006-06-08 08:54:52 · answer #11 · answered by pretty_pink_gal2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋