OK so you would think this would be a really easy decision obviously the nice guy, but I went out with the jerk before cause I loved him so much and then he broke my heart and broke up with me for reasons he couldnt say and he cheated on me with some other girl, well he did the cheating the other girl didnt, anyways so then when he broke up with me he was like dont worry ill still call you and we can be like best friends, he hasnt called me once I always call him but for some reson i still love him. And then there is the nice guy hes always so sweet and calling me beautiful and stuff and i really really like him but I just dont feel the same way about him as I do about the jerk.....Oh and more about the jerk I went down to see him( we live in different states) and he completely IGNORED me the ENTIRE time and he made me cry like everynight i was down there and i was like why are you ignoring me!? I came 4,500 miles down here to see you and and you cant even talk to me?hes like im tired
2006-06-08 08:44:44 · 19 answers · asked by *Riley* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, you do know what they say right? LOVE MAKES SOME PEOPLE BLIND! You need to wake up an smell the coffee. Man, this asshole cheated on you, played with your feelings and broke your heart? Call me crazy, but NOBODY deserves that, not even if they are blind from love. Take the sweet guy. He cherishes you and will give you the attention that you want from the so called jerk. Don't do this to yourself. Men can be ASSHOLES, but WOMEN can be STUPID. You choose. Take care, and the best of luck!
2006-06-08 08:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally it really don't matter cause in the long run they all end up acting like a jerk anyway, it's just that u can see the jerks side already and the sweet guys jerky side didn't come out yet. But by that story u should quit the old jerk and get with the new soon 2 b jerk.
2006-06-08 15:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by tsclark06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither...the reason you don't like the nice guy as much is because you still have feelings for the jerk. You need to spend time alone and get over the jerk before being with anyone else. if the nice guy is still around then, then go for it. If not, your not losing anything. Whatever you do, don't go for the jerk....he will never change and as long as you let him treat you like that, he will.
2006-06-08 15:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by bbunny0212 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't tell you one or the other. I'll tell you forget the jerk; he's all but forgotten you. If you love being treated like dirt, then go for it. But remember, he'll cheat on you again and again. Maybe you can find someone else, someone not too sweet and not a jerk.
But dump the jerk, the one good thing about him, is that he has not hit you.....yet.
Did you tell him you were travelling 4,500 miles... and if so, dump him from your life.
2006-06-08 15:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by dje 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idiot! The sweet guy of course!!!... I kept running after the jerk & then one day I finally woke up & realized the sweet guy I kept being a jerk to was actually the one for me! Why he kept being nice to me when I was so mean to him I'll never know but I'm the luckiest woman to have him in my life. Sometimes the nice guy does finish 1st, we've been married 3 yrs now & have a 7month old boy. And to think I almost ended up with the jerk, who, I later heard, ended up in prison for 8mos. Hmmm, that could've been my life!!
2006-06-08 15:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Spoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question already answered itself. Logically you go out with the nice guy but you know you aren't going to do that. Logically you should break up with the jerk, but instead you are traveling 4,500 miles to be with him. My advice is drop the both of them and keep looking neither one is really right for you but you seem pretty set on the jerk and that is probably where you are going to stay.
2006-06-08 15:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Huey from Ohio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but the jerk is way over you so you need to move on enjoy your life you deserve to be happy too. Don't even call him anymore he is so not worth your time and if he gives you time he will just use you for sex. He really doesn't like you the jerk trust me. this has happened to me before granted I only traveled 1 hour to see someone who I was so in love with who just made fun of me and ignored me and also lead me on at one time. Sweetie be happy move on.
2006-06-08 15:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by lovebug1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should find a new guy. The jerk won't change, and you deserve better. If you don't have strong feelings for the sweet guy it's not fair to him.
2006-06-08 15:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen i didnt even read the whole details, but the answer is obvious to me considering i used to be like this guy, he is totally playing you, and you are giving him the opportunity, now when you first met him you were probably so intrieged by "him", and the reason for the quotes is because it wasnt really him you were intriged or amazed by it was this character he was playing this nice guy, you really should have left at the first sign of any dicripancy, but since you didnt he realized how blind and weak you were that he continued, and the more you prolong this relationship its gonna make his behavior and actions ratonal so open your eyes and do something
2006-06-08 15:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you even have to ask - the sweet guy of course. Seems to me like the jerk doesn't care diddly about you...
We just love them bad boys - what is it with that?
2006-06-08 15:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋