all my bf previous relationships ended because they cheated on him and hes always worried that i'm going to cheat because of past experiences. he says he trusts me and that he knows im not cheating(if i am not at work im on the phone with him and vice versa). he gets all freaked out and i am worried that i don't know if i can take much more. what advice does anyone have?
2006-06-08 08:14:19 · 9 answers · asked by whistlebritches_17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe there is a reason they all cheated. I would find that out if I were you
2006-06-08 09:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't cause he probably cheated on them first thats why they cheated on him. Then he gives you this pityfull excuse saying they cheated on him, so you could have sympothy for him and fall into his trap just like the other girls. and it's always the cute and nice ones then after a couple of years he switches like Dr. Jekel & Mr. Hyde. Think about it, why did he really have so many girlfriends? Just WATCH out for that s h i t. But as a man you can never get him to see u differently. That's y all men cheat, weather u find out or not. Ask any male it's in their nature.
2006-06-08 15:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by tsclark06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let the time pass through. If he trusts you then he shouldn't worry about u cheating b'coz both things can't go together. Try to give him more time and if then he still thinks you will cheat anyway then move on and find someone else....
Best thing is he needs some counselling.
2006-06-08 15:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by masku darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.. I dont' have any advice..sorry,,I just wanted to say that I am going through the exact same thing with my boyfriend and it is rough..I know exactly how you feel and it is the most frustrating feeling in the world to know you are doing right and to still not be trusted. I am interested to know how things work out for you.. email me and let me know.. jessicahart@allstate.com good luck girl. I hope things get better for ya.
2006-06-08 15:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by itsjustme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend alot of time with him, pamper him, tell him you love him everday and don't cheat him. He's gonna be a bit insecure becoz he's still getting to know u better so be patient with him but love him to death and always be sweet to him. Try to be the best girl he ever had and the only girl he wants to be with permanently.
2006-06-08 15:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time
2006-06-08 15:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by ninapanama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress really sexy and let other guys hit on you, and completely ignore them and tell them you are with him.
2006-06-08 15:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is just promise him you love him, and constantly remind him that.
2006-06-08 15:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by donttrustsheep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be faithful and show him that your different
2006-06-08 15:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋