What should i do?

Question

I am 22yrs old,I am educated,nice,caring and i have a very sweet personailty.i try to give my 100% to everything and everyone.I am very beautiful(people say so)and shy,i know how to cook and take care of my house.i have 2 awsome jobs so i am not a lazy person but i still dont have any friends and i have been single for 3yrs now.Everytime i make a friend with a guy he would end up telling me he likes me and if i tell him i dont feel that way he will even stop being my friend.Girls dont talk to me at all and they always give me strange look.My family doesnt appriciate anything i do for them.It feels like i have no one.i feel really very lonely and left out sometime.i cant seem to find a guy who can keep me happy and true friends.I just work work work and watch my niece and go to sleep.i have no life.What should i do?i am not a bar nor club person.How do i get people to like me?what else can i do?

Answer 1

thats a hard question. Best thing to do is get out and meet people. If you have family it may be good to get to know people they are friends with. Maybe be set up with someone they know. I will be your friend.

Answer 2

The best way to meet new people who share your own beliefs and ideas is to think about what interests you. do something fun that you've never done before but always wanted to. It can be anything.

All it takes is a phone call and a place to meet up with people who share your interests. Friendships will develop and within a matter of time, you will have met many nice people.

There will always be people who don't appreciate your abilities and your heart and they will constantly be a source of sadness for you. My suggestion would be to find a new group of friends and let the negative people join their own group.

You have a wonderful heart, are intelligent , and a genuine person. So many people out there are looking for someone exactly like you and don't know where to look as well. Amazing, but it is very true.

Never give in to those who disagree with your own beliefs, your philosphy about life and living and your sense of excitement and adventure in life.

Answer 3

Lets start with the work, work and more work thing. you must find one job and free some more time to date, that's # one. # 2 -Stop giving some much of your time to all, it never works because they will become additive to all your free attention and the minute you stop to give yourself some earn ( me time ) they will start to believe you are no longer interested in their some old sorry problem. Instead of understanding, that maybe you need someone to listen to your needs, they will be insulted because you step out of their world, and the first thing out of their mouth- i don't like her any more. believe me! some people need other people, only so they can bore you to death, it that what you call friends, then i don't want any. the good thing that all people have,
is the right to move on and find new friends and start over. if you live in a area that small, move to a bigger area. if you can't because your family live there, then wait until you marry and start a new family. your old family, if they are your family , will remain your family. # 3- if you are my friend and tell me you don't like me, i to well leave as fast as i can. NOW ! if you mean you don't like me as a boyfriend, then i can understand that. but its still hard to find out that you are that open and this become a problem because some people can't handle the truth. maybe you must tone down your approach on how you tell people the truth. im not telling you that you are wrong on your approach but the real world can't handle the truth. # 4- in order for people to like you, you must like you. that said- do you like you ? ask your self- what you like about you, write it down and study it until you know exactly what the truth is. from there ,ask your self- what you think others don't like about you. when you find out the difference between the two, then and only then you may know what is going on with these so call friends. the truth is in the pudding. and about the strange looks you are getting, are you more beautiful then they are? and i don't mean just skin deep.
beaut is a tool, we all have it, some more then others. the ones with the most are the ones who have the bee flying around them, ready to be bitten, and it's because the smell of the honey and not what inside the tree. yes ! we all wish our honey can be the sweetest of them all. to attract the bees you must learn to have fun and love who you are, learn to laugh at yourself and free the engery inside you and you will see the sweetest honey flow from wihtin you. WARNING -THIS IS NOT AN PROFESSIONAL ADVICE.!!! JUST LITTLE OLD ME.

Answer 4

Just be yourself you sound like a great person. And you can't be true friends with a guy after you date.When a male and female become true friends it's called love. Maybe your always at work and no one gets a chance to get to know you?getting people to like you? I would talk more because no one likes quiet people I know because I'm quiet-N-it bothers people alot. And see you just made a friend by talking right here on this website If you e-mail me back I would like to know you better. later.bye see-ya.

Answer 5

I know how you feel. I feel the same way alot of times I am slo shy alot and i used to have trouble with getting friends as well. But now about 5 years later I have been changed thanks to god. I am really popular and have alot of guys on me. I would just try to be around more people and try to stop being as shy because I stoppped being as shy but I still am when i am around guys that I like. Just give it time. It will chanhe if you want it to. Just try to be more active with people that you wnat to be friends with and try to get over your shy ness I am trying to get over my shyness around guys that I like its working but its taking time. I am also 15 years old and have gone through that already. Just hope for the best. Good luck.

Answer 6

If you truly are all the things you say you are, then YOU are doing something wrong........ putting some kind of bad vibe out there. You need to be looking at the way you act around people and ask yourself what is it that you are putting out there that is turning people off from you.

Answer 7

well...u know wat ? u r a big dumbo...n i mean it...cos reading wat u wrote bout u ...it sounds so cute n anybody wont hurt u if u mean wat u read...it must be dat u expect sumthng more in life...welll...firstly u shud try n get some time for u ....im not telling dnt work...but work in a way dat can have some space for u r peronal life...n if u cant dat way....mmmmmmm u csn try n find some nice online friends...if u work n have an internet at work...u can have nice sms friends...cos i tell u ...i barely get time for me...so i have many sms friends cos i cant even call up at times ...welll...dnt worry much ...u r a nice person n ull get many many good friends...&&& mmm do one thing...everyday...just do anything u like the most for say about half n hour...watever u like to ...like surfing...talkng over the phne...wathng tv ..etc etc n then see ...ull like everythng n wen u like the way u live ...ull like the way people r wth u ...welll wish u good luck n hope u get lots n lots of good friends...cya n take care

Answer 8

you know how the bad and evil people always have something bad happen to them at the end? well the good people( you ) will find the true love and company you want if you are good company and friendly to other people. just be a little out there.

Answer 9

just be yourself and do not TRY to make friends. everything happens at its own sweet time. true love will come along one day. be patient. and don't under estimate yourself. all the best.

Answer 10

relax, stop thinking about it, join local clubs or try new hobbies to meet different people, take a class or join a gym...open up and let yourself be met