i mean she says i'am funny and she is always smiling and laughing around me and her friends say that she is more happier, but then i get the something is wrong feeling and dont know whats wrong. help.
2006-06-08 07:50:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all i want is for her to be really happy and it doesnt mean that she has to stay with me it just feels better when i see her smile.
2006-06-08 08:47:26 · update #1
i ask her whats wrong and she just tells me she is tired. she broke up with me twice and i remeber the way she was when she did it. everytime i think she gets that way i get scared and dont know what to do or say.
2006-06-08 09:22:20 · update #2
this is one of those moments when we just feel a little bit insecure. The only reason u are thinking the way u do right now is because u really luv her and fear loosing her. Just calm down, she's all urs. Even if there's something wrong truly, u'll know with time. or u might still ask her if u have the nerve to. iadvice u to ask it in the most casual way u can. u don't want her to start thinkin u don't trust her. It's good to be in luv, isn't it? Good luck buddy.
2006-06-08 07:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by darkestknight 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think everyone goes through this at one time or another in a relationship. Those old feelings of insecurity can come on pretty strong every now and then. There really is no answer, except to think happy thoughts! One thing i do know for sure; When you get these feelings, don't continually drag them onto your girlfriend. Don't keep asking her if everything is okay, and don't keep asking for her approval constantly. I dated a guy like that. At first everything was fine, then he started asking maybe every other week or so if I was mad at him, or if I still loved him, or if I was happy etc...Then it got to be a couple times a week, then every day, then a couple times a day. After a while it's all we talked about..."how much I cared for HIM". It absolutely drove me crazy and into the arms of another man, who was the exact opposite. Self confident, and self assured. (I married him)
Just be cool. If something is wrong, she'll tell you.
2006-06-08 08:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know if she's happy besides you simply asking her how she feels. You're not psychic and nor should she expect that out of you. Take notice in her actions and reactions when you are around her. You could do things that she likes to make her happy, but honestly if she’s not happy with you no matter what you do won’t change her heart and how she feels inside. I think the best way is to ask her “are you happy with me?” if she doesn’t have the decency to tell you the truth then perhaps you deserve someone that can be honest with you. Honestly is what you need in a relationship. Hope the best works out for you.
2006-06-08 07:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's enough to knw that she is happy ~but if u still feel like she is only showing u what is on the surface, then u should ask her what's bothering her~ It might make her feel better knowing that u r there for her (even tho it is possible that she won't tell u what's wrong there and then - but she will when she feels comfortable). It might serve her best knowing that u r there for her no matter what.
c, the thing w/us girls we need someone to actually convince our naive minds that u r there for us. If she is all u want her to be, and u would really like to knw what u think is bothering her, u might wanna put IT IN HER HEAD that u CARE for her.
2006-06-08 07:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by Briana B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not happy if when she hangs out with you it feels like its a job something that she has to do or is expected to do. If shes alway smiling im sure your fine. Dont over complicate things.
2006-06-08 07:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by mayrad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one on the internet can tell you. You would have to ask her. Only she knows the truth. Take her out somewhere new, get away. Spend some quality time with her and make sure she knows that you think the world and then some of her.
2006-06-08 07:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by soccerplayinjuggalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that she really like you and ur just feeling insecure. dont worry so much if her friends say she is happy it means shes happy a girls friend wont lie to the boyfriend trust me im a girl and girls are really close
2006-06-08 07:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know if she likes you or not just look in the way that she looks at you and the way that she touch you how manny times she calls you and how manny time you guys see each other if you guys take a lot to see each other and when the day for you guys to see each other if you see that shes all over you its a sing that she cares for you im telling you this cause my boyfriends sometimes he is unsecure if i like him or no and i keep on telling look at my sings of how i act with you so look for the sings that your girl its giving to you
2006-06-08 07:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends said this & friends said that!
Stop listening to every goddamn bit of rubbish they tell you.
Friends want what's best for you, but sometimes they turn funny & tell you rubbish to see if they can get you to jump higher than the girlfriend can/does!
See what I mean?
2006-06-08 07:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, then there's your answer! Also, women don't like a lack of confidence. You are in here asking this question, right?
No, she's not happy.
2006-06-08 07:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by SJ_Zapatista 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋