I have known this guy since I was little. When I moved away I lost contact with him. As I entered ninth grade I found out he was there. However it was not the same guy I knew so long ago. He was the guy all the girls wanted. I later found out I didn't stand a chance with him because everybody wanted him. I can't even talk to him because I'm not beautiful, popular, or rich. I do know him though. I know his past and everything about him. I really want him to be mine, but I can't have him.
2006-06-08 07:45:55 · 15 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't sell yourself short. You don't know what he's looking for. Maybe he wants something deeper than physical beauty and wealth. There really are some great guys who admire a rich mind and bubbling personality.
2006-06-08 07:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just talk to him. You will forever regret it if you sit back and do nothing because you think that you don't have a chance. Ask him to go on a walk sometime, and just talk about things. Show him that you are interested in him and that you know things about him. Don't force it, just be confident. Confidence and a good personality can make you more attractive than any beautiful hard body. But if you never try, you will never win.
2006-06-08 07:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by soccerplayinjuggalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open communication is the key. Start up a conversation with him along the lines of what your both interested in.
All guys just want 8 things: Honesty, Respect, Trust, Sharing, Caring, Appreciation, A Sense of Humor, and unconditional Love.
Show him you share these same values and you will get him in an instant.
2006-06-08 07:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and have confidence. Focus on the things that you feel good about. I'm sure you are pretty in ways that maybe people don't notice until they get to know you. Talk to him, hang out with him, try...if it doesn't work out you will still be ok.
2006-06-08 07:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by L. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a childhood crush that over time will go away. Don't torture yourself. There are hundreds of guys out there that are willing to get to know you and want to be with you.
Who wants what everbody else wants?
2006-06-08 07:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in 9th grade...FORGET ABOUT HIM!!!!...and realize, you are who you are and deserve the best possible person to fall in love with and to love you back...money, popularity or otherwise only holds so much weight, once you peel back the shallowness of it all, what are you really left with?
2006-06-08 07:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him anyway. Flirt with him. Dress sexy. Ask him out. The worst that can happen is that he will say no.
2006-06-08 07:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a passage from one of those dime novels to me.
2006-06-08 07:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by meimmoody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah really, talk to him, hang around him, get to know him, ask him to go hang out with you and stuff like that.
guys are always going to be stupid, no offense or anything, but they are. just go with what your heart tells you to do.
<3 tani
2006-06-08 07:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by xskankkxmonsterrxcorex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to him anyway....if that dont work just move on sister the right one is around the corner....
2006-06-08 08:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋