i have been with my bf for 4 years...i feel insecured lately (very insecured)because when we were having this huge argument he fall for another girl on the net, and this is the second time this has happened...although we reconcile...i just find it hard to trust him. But he did do his part of making me feel better this time around, he had a surprise party for me, showered me with alot of gifts to make me happy...i don't know if i should carry on with this relationship or not...and if things have to come to an end, how do i recover from this heart break?
2006-06-08 07:38:16 · 17 answers · asked by Shining StaR 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Went off with another woman twice. What is so confusing? He can throw all the parties for you he wants, but that doesn't make up for cheating on you. Find yourself someone who is faithful.
2006-06-08 07:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by mye77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't feel as strongly. I don't think someone who has been in love for 4 years moves on that quickly and falls for someone else. Especially not over the internet. If things end and you move on, all you can do is move on. Sure it will hurt for a little while, but thats life. If there wasn't any pain, there wouldn't be any lessons to learn. That would make the world a perfect place, which we know is impossible. You only live once, don't let heartache hold you back. There is definitely someone out there that can love you the way you need.
2006-06-08 14:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by soccerplayinjuggalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok I understand your story. I'm in a situation similar right now. It's probably best to get out that's what I'm going to do, they play with your heart and when they know you want to leave they give you things or make sure to say just the right thing. And that's sometimes hurts more than when they intentionally hurt you. The best thing to do is to end it, everyone gets heartbroken and it does hurt very much, but only for awhile until you meet this wonderful, caring guy who wants to treat you good, then your going to be happy with the decision you made.
2006-06-08 14:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably not in love with him.
What you are is comfortable with the relationship and don't want to have to look for and hope you find this level of comfortablenss again. But it does come again, try being alone for a bit and then start dating again. It doesn't matter how young or old you are, there are new and better catches out there.
2006-06-08 14:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Tequila Heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years? one argument? and he "falls in love" with some girl on the net? this has happened twice? and you are asking, after all this time with him, if you should stay? i suggest you read your own question and see how foolish all this really is....you shouldn't be asking if you should leave, you need to be asking yourself how you have let yourself waste 4 years of your life
2006-06-08 14:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not trust him! Remember once a cheater always a cheater... whether it be on the phone, e-mail etc...
He gets off on getting away with things. I don't like it. It happened to me once and nothing changed. Be careful.
2006-06-08 14:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by amylr620 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, stay and talk to him about the problem, but since your having douts you should keep your options open.
2006-06-08 14:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he realy loved ya he'll never look for another girl so i think it's time for you to move on & make him feel alone for what he've done!
2006-06-08 14:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Yagami 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he don't care about u , leave that guy. because love is base on trust. so no trust no love at all.
2006-06-08 14:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by cool_ranjan4all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know how you feel it as lot further than you think if he love you enough to do that stay with him
2006-06-08 14:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋