Last summer I split with my girlfriend and when we did all my mates were away for 2 weeks in US, so my parents asked me go to spain with them, I thought yeah why not drinking dancing , but when we got there we were miles from anywhere in a little village felt as if we were in Wales, we moved in to the cottage and I went for a walk a met a guy called Wayne same age and same sort of thing had happend to him very similar and a bit a drinker like me, so we hanged out and he made the holiday,we watched football got drunk in pubs untill the last night we were in season party with the oldies and there was this big boardwalk that went over the beach so we thought rather than stay with the oldies we would take beers and sit on the board walk after around 10 cans each he put his hand on my dick and kissed I let him for about 1 sec,and said he thought he loved me, pushed him away and walked off,I feel straight but the thought of staying and maybe liking it and doing more plays on me are my gay?
2006-06-08 07:25:58 · 24 answers · asked by Kaleb J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The biggest myth about homosexuality is that a person is either "gay" or not "gay," or even something inbetween. It is a mistake to think that you are one or the other. In ancient Greece all the boys were raised in a common house away from the women, and virtually all of them were seduced to practice and even enjoy homosexual behavior. It doesn't mean they were all "gay" as though they were born with some kind of class distinction.
I've never met a man who could not be aroused by automanipulation or masturbation. Isn't this a form of homosexual behavior, when you look at it as a man stimulating a man? Are all men "gay" then? Not at all. All men are capable of being aroused by another man, whether they will admit it or not. All men are capable of getting drunk, but that doesn't mean they were closet alcoholics from birth. It is just the way we are.
What you had was a very brief homosexual experience, which you did not initiate. What you need to do is realize that this is not some kind of sign from heaven that you are destined to be "gay." You should stop dwelling on it, realize that it could have happened to anyone, and get on with a wholesome life style. By the way, the guy was definitely seducing you, and this sort of thing happens all the time. Because of our lack of understanding of homosexuality we think this means something about who we are - whether "gay" or not. That ignorance is a great aid to the sexual predator.
2006-06-08 07:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Doctor 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he totally confused you by acting like the perfect buddy then stealing a feel and a kiss from you. If you were really drunk and you still pushed him away, chances are you are straight. But the choice is yours now, if you stay knowing how he feels, then you are gay. If you leave and never mention that kiss and grab to anyone again, you are totally straight.
2006-06-08 14:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It okay i know how you feel you see it is the idea that you like it because you are alone with a guy and your girl just hurt you so you enjoy it alot and but then again it depends on how old you are people get confused at a certian age like 19-30ish but trust me ur staight you just need help from time to time
2006-06-08 14:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by moon_bunny453 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sounds like you were having a good time with a friend and he might have misunderstood the situation. maybe if you would have talked to him and explained that you normally don't do that. I think it's more the curiosity that's bothering you , the "what if".
2006-06-08 14:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, I am fairly sure that many people(both men and women) have had bisexual tendencies; The guy you met might have been just a wee bit drunk and unaware of his actions, I would just brush it off and go on. Please chose your drinking buddies more carefully.
Better yet, don't drink.
2006-06-08 14:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Mommy Dearest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you could do is go back and find out for your self we cant really answer that sweety the same thing happened to me with a gurl and the thought of that made me go back and im happy the way i am now with my girlfriend
2006-06-08 14:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by miriam_santiago88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are gay. You were probably somewhat curious too..or just out of it. But, you were really drunk..so I wouldn't suggest getting drunk with him again.
2006-06-08 14:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mav17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you had no control over it. same thing sorta happened to me. (except the dick thing cuz i dont gots one. lol.) but if you feel straight then its all good. i just recently got dumped by my boyfriend so i kinda see where ur comin from. but its ok if you liked it cuz hell u had 10 beers!
2006-06-08 14:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your not that gay but he is, because he says he love you.
What you like is what he had done but not him so I can say he is that gay but not you but if you also like that he is the one whose doing that to you, you're the gay. But you're not gay if the thing you like is what he done. Maybe you'll also liked it if a girl do that.
2006-06-12 01:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your straight you wouldn't even think of putting it on Yahoo Answers.
2006-06-08 15:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋