DSS told my mom my dad might be died and i was worndering if you guys can help me find him?

Question

It has been 14 year, there is no recored of socal secrirty. His name is bruce ottoway turner. he waz chared with abuse , the cops looked for him and no one found him . i just wanna meet him

Answer 1

"BRUCE O TURNER
9428 SPANISH NEEDLE RD Recorded: Unknown
GILLESPIE, IL 62033 County [phone]

BRUCE O TURNER Born Oct 1939
506 FAIRWAY DR Recorded: 08/09/2003
MORO, IL 62067 County

BRUCE O TURNER Born May 1945
410 2ND ST Recorded: 01/29/2002
GULFPORT, MS 39507 County

BRUCE O TURNER Born 1946
711 FOREST AVE Recorded: 03/12/2002
LONG BEACH, MS 39560 County [phone]

BRUCE O TURNER
2406 PHOENIX DR Recorded: 02/27/2002
GREENSBORO, NC 27406 County

BRUCE O TURNER Born Feb 1966
342 MELODY LN Recorded: 05/17/2001
CORPUS CHRISTI, TX 78418 County

BRUCE O TURNER Born 1950
2620 OVERLAND DR Recorded: Unknown
DALLAS, TX 75234 County [phone]

BRUCE O TURNER Born 1942
2888 INMAN RD Recorded: Unknown
DANVILLE, VA 24541 County [phone]

BRUCE O TURNER
10513 EDINBURGH DR Recorded: 04/15/2001
SPOTSYLVANIA, VA 22553 County"

Also: "Turner Siding (contractor); licensee Bruce O. Turner, 2201 Indian Hill Road, Colonial Heights 23834-6001"

Answer 2

I fully understand your need to meet or get to know your biological father, but you also need to understand that you may be setting yourself up for a tremendous amount of emotional pain. Sometimes, it is best to leave things as they are especially if it was his choice to walk away.
Being told you are not wanted, or that you are not their child is devastating, make no mistake, it hurts more than you know. However, never having the opportunity to "find out" seems almost overwhelming at times.
To search for people there are ton's of internet sites you can use, but first and foremost if you have his SSN and date of birth, the Social Security website has a place to verify if someone is dead or not.
Just think before you act on this one. You may be his child, but that does not mean that you know the full story and that you know the absolute truth about whatever may have happened in the past. In addition, you are not the only person affected, your mother will be affected as well should you find him alive and you choose to make contact.
Things may turn out ok and they may not, so be sure to really be honest when you ask the question: Do I really want to open this pandora's box, and am I ready for the full story and answers?
When I met my biological father many years ago it was not what I hoped for, we did not live happily ever after. This does not mean you won't, but it does say that you have to be willing to bear the hurt should it turn out badly. Trust me, next to losing a child, I can't tell you how bad you can feel being disavowed face to face like that.
Be careful what you wish for, you just may get it is the philosophy you need to consider.

Best wishes to you in your decision

Answer 3

ooo...14 years is...woah.Okay,first things first.What happened to your dad?How and where did he go missing?That is one thing you need to know to start the search.You can write to the press and the newspaper telling them about your story and plea with the press formally to broadcast your story in the news.You can call in the radio and tell them your story and seek help from the listeners.Print posters of your dad(if you have his pictures) and paste them everywhere that you can think of but the best place is to paste it near the airport or immigration center.You can also hand his poster to all the neighbourhood police center,the airport security or the immigration center security.You can hire spys and detectives to look for your dad.If all else fails,expand your search to neighbouring country using the same method mentioned above.If still no news,your dad may be dead.To confirm this,you can check with the mortuary for unidentified male bodies that match your dad's description for eg,his race,skin tone and age but i doubt any mortuary stills keep an unidentified body for 14 years but hey,just try it out okay?Don't give up.You can ask the person in-charge of the mortuary where they sent the unidentified bodies which has exceeded its stay in the mortuary for identifying.Yes,all this cost money but he is your dad and he may be somewhere in the world missing you like how you misses him so whatever you do just don't give up even though it requires you to scour the graves for his tombstone.No matter how long it takes,just don't give up.He is your daddd!!!

Answer 4

If he has any relatives, they are the most likely to know where he is.

If he has not worked under his SSN, he probably has not worked under his real name either, so tracking his name will not help.

If he works in a unionized industry, like electrician, you might try the union.

It would help to know why DSS thinks he is dead. If he has not been heard from by anyone for 14 years, your mother could have him declared dead for purposes of collecting social security or other benefits.

Answer 5

it particularly is a bad loss. even however you probably did no longer have a bodily intimate dating and positively did no longer meet him. i do no longer doubt the sentiments you have for this individual - they'd desire to be particularly demanding to handle on the 2nd. yet in time, once you're intimate with somebody on a actual and emotional l point, it is going to experience a remarkable deal diverse and the dating will attain a diverse point. i might tell your father and mom - basically blurt it out. a minimum of then they be responsive to and could attempt understand. in case you're saying no longer something they'll understand no longer something and you will come to resent them. solid success with getting with the aid of this.

Answer 6

go to www.namesdatabase.com there are 14 bruce turners on there. i dont know what country you are looking for but there are several on there. good luck! (by the way, its free. refer some friends and you can send free emails to anyone on there)

Answer 7

ok. well first off if he was charged with abuse do you really want to risk that? but i mean if you really need to talk you can talk to me. my dad doesnt even acknowledge my presence and my ex- stepdad was abusive in like EVERY way. so if you need to vent, email me. [e-mail]. i probly undrestand more than most of these people...

Answer 8

Do you have any idea which country he might be in? If so add it to your question, the more information you put up the better it will be.

Answer 9

I don't mean 2 be so noisy and answer this personal question but maybe he changed his name so people won't find him.

Answer 10

i can see what i can find but can not garrentuee any thing go a head and give me the info you know and i'll see what i can find out [e-mail]