im 2 months pregnant and im 16 and my brother is 8 with ADHD and OCD my mom constantly hits us and yells at us not like a normal parent tho when i told her i was pregnant she didnt really get mad and stop hitting me as often but still dies wat do i do
2006-06-08 07:11:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
and my mom and dad are divorced and i dont want to live with him and have my mom go to jail can i just tuff it out
2006-06-08 07:17:07 · update #1
it doesnt matter who you tell just tell a mature adult & hey b careful because there is a way to check what we write my ma does it all the time i ffel so srry fo you hun just get outta there dont have your baby grow up in that house
2006-06-08 07:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I know it's hard being that young and pregnant, I know I was 17 when I got pregnant with my first baby, BUT you should never have to deal with what you are going through.
I went through my parents hitting on me and it's never right for a parent to lay their hands on their kids no matter what. A parent can always find a different way to make a point to their kids without pain. If you are tired of it or if you are scared it's just going to get worse, you really do need to tell someone. Maybe not the cops but maybe a friend, counselor, principal just someone.
Tell your mom that if she doesn't stop with the hitting that you will report it to the right person because not only is she putting you and your brother in a bad situation she will eventually endanger both of your lives and the life of your baby. Do what is right, warn her first, tell some people so they know and if it doesn't stop then go the police.
I'll pray for the best for you, your baby and your brother!!!
2006-06-08 14:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by youngmommi02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think kids now days are spoiled brats being that they call the cops all of the time. Be an adult and sit down and have a face to face conversation with her. Tell your mom that you are concerned about her behavior towards you and your brother. She may need some counseling about how to deal with adhd. It's incredibly hard to keep your cool when dealing with a child who has it. Offer your help, don't make it worse by calling the cops. If you feel he's being abused, call them. BUTAS FAR AS HER HITTING YOU, YOU'RE WAY TOO OLD FOR THAT. You're 16, and pregnant. Time to grow up. Get a job so you can move out.
2006-06-08 14:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that you have to go through this crap. I would first talk to your brother and see how he feels. Then both of you, go to your mother and express your feelings to her regarding this behavior. Tell her that you don't like and neither does your brother. Also, tell her that you want to raise your child in a loving home and you don't want this type of actions going on and you want your child to respect their grandmother. If you put it in a nice way, and show concern, then I believe it will work out. If you mother doesn't follow the rules, then she has to be told to obey by a higher authority.
Word of caution. If it gets to the point where the cops are involved, be careful, it could cause more problems, especially for a motherless boy.
2006-06-08 14:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by osubuckeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a stituation like this you need to tell someone. If there are no family members you can trust then yes I would call the local CPS (child protective services). Dont be afraid no matter what happens you need to stay strong people may try to scare you out of sticking with it. IF you feel you and your brother are in danger then most deffinatly call the the CPS.
2006-06-08 14:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by lady_to_know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you need to call the dept of children's welfare, and tell them what you told us, or you can go to a friend's house, and tell their parents about your mom, and ask them to help you deal with it. If you are just mad at your mom, and she isn't really doing anything to you or your brother, then, you don't need to throw accusation toward her, but the Dept. of Children's Welfare can investigate the situation, and possibly put you and your brother somewhere safe.
2006-06-08 14:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by tennessee_cherokee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should surely tell someone you trust. I hope there's a person like this in your surroundings. If not than tell someone who's grown-up and friendly and there surely are some special services where you can speak on what is bothering you staying anonymous. Do something about that.
2006-06-08 14:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by nicky_the_dolphin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are old enough to get pregnant then you are old enough to take responsibilities get a job and get you and your brother out
2006-06-08 14:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is child abuse. Call 911 and report her. You and your brother need to get out of there.
2006-06-08 14:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, call the cops. Tell someone and get help. Don't play it safe.
2006-06-08 14:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋