i love my ex so much and he claims he loves me so much more but we both try and try but get nowhere
2006-06-08 06:52:40 · 7 answers · asked by lilraiderchick03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love is all good, but, for a relationship to work you need common goals and interests, good communication skills, and be able to work through problems. it sounds as if there may be problems that love isn't enough to compensate for. both people have to work at the relationship stuff that isnt working and if both arent committed then there will be more problems and pretty soon the loving wont be enough and being together will be painful.
2006-06-08 07:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by IvebeenAbadbadgrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean.I think that two people can have so much love, so much attraction, and so much connection but get nowhere in a relationship because they get intimidated by these factors they carry for eachother.I think you two may find it hard to make an intimate move because you get shy,thinking way too high of the other person, causing to think lower of yourself.You may feel you don't measure up therefore this intimidation may get in the way of a beautiful relationship.My advice is to be friends for a while, nothing intimate strictly friends mode, and when you guys get more and more confortable with eachother, you can take it up a notch.Its probably the right person but wrong timing, so you guys should wait for the right time.You will know when it comes..Good Luck
2006-06-08 14:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need more than love to make a relationship work! Maybe your love for eachother should be used to build a great friendship.
2006-06-08 13:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Seerah327 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you guys broke up in the first place? Things can work out only if y´all feel they can be worked out. If it was a cheating or lying thing, I really wouldn´t feel comfortable. But if it´s something silly, then I would really try to make it work.
2006-06-08 13:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by goodgirl2484 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its happened to me its real hard too and when u love somebody so much that the relationship is not working out then u need to see other ppl before its too late and one of u do somthing u will regret
2006-06-08 13:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not getting anywhere then you two need to let each other go.Two people who love each other makes things work out no matter what
2006-06-08 13:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so just leave it.
2006-06-08 13:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by Oriel-Nirnaan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋