how many of you ladies or gentlemen would date someone who weighed lets say some one who weighed 200 pounds but they had a pure heart of gold and loved you for you
2006-06-08 06:05:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it!!! Remember looks fade but if his heart is good it will always be.
Think like this everyone. What if you were in an accident or gained a bunch of weight during a pregnancy, wouldn't you want someone who still loves you even when you are not "perfect" anymore?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and love comes from the heart not the eyes.
2006-06-08 06:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by Robin1B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is an odd question. It is easy enough for a guy to be 6 ft 3 inches and weigh 200 lbs and not be considered fat or overweight, if that is what you getting at. You must rephrase the question because it sounds like you actually mean someone who is very heavy. 200 lbs would not do it. 300 lbs would. We should be looking at who the person is, not how the person looks. Clean, well-groomed, spiritual, thoughtful, intelligent, caring, reasonable might be good things to look for in a person
2006-06-08 13:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by the Goddess Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I dont see where weight should matter if the person has a good personality and he treats you right. So many people focus on looks and they have bad personalities so I suppose the question should be would you want to be with someone who is thin and cute or someone who has some weight issues with a heart of gold who will treat you like a queen or king?
2006-06-08 13:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by bbw_angeleyes72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has weight to do with love. If he has a pure heart of gold then there is no quastion about not loving whether the person is underwight or overweight.
2006-06-08 13:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by HarshaW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know i would. Looks don't really matter THAT much. my bf is like, 2 ft shorter than me! If he luvs u 4 u, & is that nice stick with him. Make sure he has all the qualities u want though. DON'T LOWER UR STANDARDS 4 ANYONE! Also, don't make him feel bad about his appearance. If he is sweet 2 u, b sweet back!
good luck!
2006-06-08 13:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Weasel♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my feeling on this is it does not matter what the person looks like on the outside there true self is what they have on the inside looks are not every thing when you love some one and can't not be with them what do you think about not what they look like you think of what you two feel for each other what you two do together what you talked about
2006-06-08 13:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you askng men if they'd date me? lol
I'm 250lbs. I've known MANY guys who dated me because they, "liked girls with meat on their bones". From what I understand, sex with skinny chicks hurts, and leaves bruises.
My ex from 3 years ago was 310lbs. I was with him for 13 years. I loved him VERY much. Heart of gold, too bad he was a drug addict. We did love eachother for who we were though.
2006-06-08 13:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by furnace4bro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. The weight thing doesn't matter much but if I wanted him to look better we could both work on him loosing some weight provided he was agreeable as well.
2006-06-08 13:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.... It comes from within.
If he treats you right, then go for it... Good men are hard to find these days.... The weight can always come off....
good luck!
2006-06-08 13:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does weight have to do with anything? If I find a guy who loves me for me and vice-versa, I'll date that guy. I'm already in love with a big guy and he loves me too.
2006-06-08 13:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋