i have a boyfriend but i hav another one on da side the one on da side luv me n he want to be with me also my boyfriend wants da same me and my boyfriend has been together for 11 months and me and dis guy been together well we been talkin 4 3 or 4 months i luv my boyfriend and i also luv the other one 2 i dont want to b with the other one but i dont want to break his heart cuz he been threw alot wat should i do
2006-06-08 06:00:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You ,Dutches of no-where ,putting your legs on two ships,both static.before any ship move away board one quickly.Or be ready to fall in the deep sea.
2006-06-08 06:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have bad news, I have been in the same situation, but i was one of the guys. You see in the end of this there is going to be one that is going to get hurt after all, you can't stop that. Luck for me my gf stayed for me but the other guy looked like he was going to commit suicide. What i recommend is that if your bf treats you very good and you are happy stay with him. If you think that the other guy is better than your bf, than the problem begins, but let me ask you this, Have you told the other guy that you have a bf???? If you have now you have to follow your heart on that one, but if you haven't told him, then you are DOUBLE CHEATING. sorry but that is the right word. In the end don't give up, If two guys like you, then you must be very special so don't let that go to waste. remeber no matter what one is going to lose.
2006-06-08 13:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by fernando j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the reason why some men are walking around scorned. THen when they find a good women, they are sooo bitter and means towards them. The women doesn't have a chance in hell. Come on now, you can't possibly be serious. Pick one of them , and spare the other a wounded heart.
2006-06-08 13:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by phillymami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with the one on the side then you need to break things up the other one as soon as possible. Yeah, you might break his heart but you could do more damage by keeping this a secret from him.
2006-06-08 13:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by beauman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn girl that is how drama starts you should reevaluate who you love the most who you could never let go of and if its both then you need to let both go intill you can be sure- people die over stuff like this everyday not to mention you might get a player status if thats what you want fine if not then maybe you should be a real women and get one man!!!!!!!
2006-06-08 13:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Dutchess n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are kidding, right? Is English your second language?
Do you have a guardian or someone who helps you dress, feed yourself? Are you from another country? Are you old enough to be on the computer unsupervised?
I would consider getting to school and paying attention in class. Boyfriends should be the least of your concerns right now.
Goodness......
2006-06-08 13:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
deary, u gotta figure out who u like and want to be with the most. just because sum1z been threw a lot doesn't mean that u should stay with him if u wunt sum1 else more than him. trust me i have been in this situation. i kinda am. the guy i am goin out with is 23 but there's a guy more my age that i like and i wunna b with them both but i don't kno how 1 of them feels about me. after u find out who u wunt sit down and talk to them. if u need ne more help, just email destiny9292@yahoo.com
2006-06-08 13:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u luv both?
hav u ever tot if they may face a crisis like u??
mmm,are u sure its nt infautation of sum kind??
it aint fair to both of dem.u will hurt dem.
relationship matters are e most complicated.ur ultimate decision will affect urself in e end.choose wisely.
or u will hav e heavy conscience.
2006-06-08 13:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by fake-imitiation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boy friend then you would not start or have a relationship with the other guy, you will have others that like you as well and want to be with you but hey that's life. He open to your boy friend aboutt things and let him know abou the other guy that likes you.
2006-06-08 13:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by εїз♥ ZÕË♥ εїз 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess most women right now r in the same boat. I have the same problem and im trying to figure how to keep both of them at the same time and not lose either one one them.
2006-06-08 13:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by Kasey M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋