What did he mean. ? I will add, that we are both married, but meet up when it is safe for us both to do so.
2006-06-08 05:34:38 · 10 answers · asked by CityGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having someone in love with you is a lot of responsibility. It means that you are uniquely able to affect that person's feelings. Any little thing that you say or do can make them feel insecure so you have to watch what you say and you feel responisible for their happiness or misery.
It also implies that the relationship has moved on from 'a bit of fun' to something that has consequences and a future, so a whole load of other things to worry about.
I can see why your lover isn't desperately keen on adding love into the mix of unhappy marriage with lover on the side. Its just all a bit too much. Too many emotions, too many people's feelings and lives on the line. Now he has two women that love him and depend on him; that is a lot of responsibility.
I really hope things turn out well for you. Make sure you are looking after yourself and your kids first and for most; don't worry about the men too much until you've got your side of things under control.
2006-06-08 05:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by SmartBlonde 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it seems you wre testing the waters or have moved from an affair to something more serious? On the other hand my lover said the same that.she loved me. I do love her but i can't judge if it will go further based on the very limited time we spend together You two need to talk! Good luck
2006-06-08 05:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ade Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he doesn't wish to have something more (more commitment) than he actually has with you at the moment. It sounds normal since you're both married..Maybe you should reconsider your own feelings for this guy and why he is your lover..
2006-06-08 06:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Psychologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously you don't love your husband so do HIM a favour and get out of his life.Who needs a cheating wife when there are so many honest caring and FAITHFUL women out there??Who the hell could love someone like you???Not me ......Also you put this Question in singles and dating when you state that your married ..Are you stupid as well as unfaithful??
2006-06-08 06:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by andy f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's already married, then his answer means that he already has someone who loves him = his wife, and all he's looking to you for is some extra fun on the side.
2006-06-08 05:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt of said that you loved him when your are both married i suggest you leave your husband because he doesnt deserve this and then i suggest you ditch the lover because its not fair on his wife either you disgust me! you need to get a life
2006-06-08 06:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably means that he can't handle loving two women at the same time. Too much pressure.
2006-06-08 05:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Rodney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'am afraid he wants fun only. Sry
2006-06-08 06:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! He means that this is far as it goes, sex, nothing more.
2006-06-08 05:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds Great. NOT!!!
2006-06-08 05:37:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋