2006-06-08 05:20:04 · 7 answers · asked by Tasteelicious 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
Happened to me. Don't know exactly what you're looking for. Go to the funeral. Pay your grievances, talk to someone and hope that time will heal all wounds.
2006-06-08 05:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by obscuritas713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You grieve! Everyone handles death differently. There is no right way or wrong way. Just be true to your pain. Allow yourself to cry, be emotional, mad, laugh, feel loss, and the list goes on and on. What ever you feel, is your way to deal with your friends death. Be supportive of the family if you are able. Try to go to their home or at least call. Don't worry about what to say, if you go see the family. Just you being there will have a sense of comfort to them. The first year after someone dies, is a very hard journey. Its the first of everything with out this person no longer in the picture. Holidays, special occasions, their birthday. events that you shared together, activities that you would of done together, and picking up that phone a 1000 times to call and share something with them. The long haul to grief is time. And only time will make the pain numb. It takes as long as it takes to get threw a personnel death experience. Talk to God, he will walk this long and painful path with you.
2006-06-08 14:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult. Just recently my dad passed away, he was at a hospital that's local to me and he was doing fine, he was up reading and talking to us and being his usual self and not even a week later he was reduced to just laying their sleeping and not talking much. It's hard to take and I hope you find something to help you cope.
Also my nephews have had this experience. I had talked to their dad the day before he died and he was almost fine. He did have some mental issues and we tried to keep him okay for the sake of the kids but nothing worked and the day after I talked to him and got him to reassure me he wasn't going to do anything he hung himself, and my nephews are still trying to cope.
It may take a while for you to cope with this but .... it will get easier as time goes on.
2006-06-08 12:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Cabaret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were my friend it wouldn't matter if I saw them last week, yesterday or a year ago. I would be upset or I guess I don't understand your question. I would handle it the same way I would any other death.
2006-06-08 12:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by wvhoneycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to deal with the passing of someone we care about, especially if it's sudden. My condolences to you. Have you checked into bereavement support groups? Ask your doctor. He/she may know of one. They can be very beneficial. If there are no groups, you may wish to talk to a grief counsellor or another professional person. Your doctor can help with this.
2006-06-14 11:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Garfield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone about what you are going through, you may also be in shock so don't be surprised if it hits you harder later.
2006-06-08 12:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by ~Divine Mrs. P~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with mix emotions why?
2006-06-08 12:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by fartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋