We were together for everything but now that he is gone, i feel that i can`t do nothing without him. I think that i will go crazy or I will try something against my life, like committing suicide. please help me with the best of your knowledge, because many have tried to, but they cuoldn`t. That`s why I am asking you for help.
2006-06-08 05:11:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i have lost a few people in my life dad grama friends and things really dont get easier athough people will say so it doesnt all i can say is he would of wanted for u to live your life and be happy carry on his memory with u and things will be easier if u wanna talk or need someone to chat with gemini_dee24@yahoo im here diana dont take the easy way out with suicide please dont
2006-06-08 05:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Diana K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, whether you choose to believe in God or not, He's real and he says that committing suicide is an unforgivable sin. That's really the most important thing first.
Next, take comfort in the fact that others have lived through the same kind of pain that you are. Some have lost their own children. I often think of the woman on Oprah. She went out for a walk with her friend. When she got home her ex husband had gone to her house and killed every one of her children, in her home, and then himself. As sick and sad as this is, she has gone on. Hearing her story alone has saved probably hundreds of lives.
Day by day, it really WILL get easier. Eventually, everyone that ever considers suicide DOES look back on it. I had considered it as a teen. More than considered it. But I look back now and I have had sooooo many moments, so many joyous, wonderful moments that I would have missed. My boys would not be here if I had killed myself. I would have missed meeting my husband, having my wonderful dogs. And little things, like the times I have walked on the beach, enjoyed a glass of wine and some good music at sunset, reading The Secret Life of Bees, getting older and wiser :)
Time really does heal all wounds. You will never get 'over' him, but as time eases the pain, you will begin to enjoy your life more. You will begin to make your life into what is to become, create more memories you don't know about now, but that will make you smile for the rest of your years.
2006-06-08 06:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by WriterMom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sweetie, I'm sorry that you lost your best friend and brother Maybe you can look into being a Big Brother to another child that feels lonely without a brother. Maybe not right now, but when your feeling better.Look in the phone book and you'll find the big brother organization. Sometimes it helps to help us heal if we are helping other people. Good Luck Sweetie. I'm sure you were a great Big brother to him and he loved you very much. Give yourself time to heal and then go...be a big brother again.Your probably Great Big Brother to have.
2006-06-08 05:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by skipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to get over somthing like that.But,your brother is in a better place now,and he is probably looking down at you right
now from the holy gates of Heaven.Maybe a hobby would help you get over the pain.Try painting and you could paint your feelings in an artistic way. Your brother now= 0:-)
2006-06-08 06:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Aubrey Animal Goddess :-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take offence to this, but you should try to talk to a therapist or some type of counselor because the greiving process takes time and you need tools to help you make it through this traumatic time in your life. If you are thinking about hurting yourself there are hotlines you can call. Just try to think about the fact that your brother would probably want you to take care of yourself and want you to be happy. I hope you're okay
2006-06-08 05:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by I got answers! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's going to be hard for a while. Just be strong it will get easier. Just take one day at a time. Spend more time with the other people in your life that you love, talk to them, tell them how and what your feeling. Live your life , get involved with your work, friends , church whatever it is that will keep you busy. You never have to forget him , but you do have to keep living.
2006-06-08 05:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by Randys Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although lose is the hardest thing in life t o deal with you need to talk to someone who may be able to help get this hard time in your life. Remember that your life is valuable and even though you lost your brother you deserve to happy, His memory will always be with you. God Bless you.
2006-06-08 06:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by arizonabrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand and feel for your loss,and i know noone can replace him,but,have you thought of being a big brother to someone,there are lots of little guys out their that would absolutely love having such a caring commpasionate person like you around.Never even think of taking your own life,please,you will do more devistation to your family and friends.Besides your lil brother is at peace,and would not want you to end your life.He loves you very much,and so do i,and i dont even know you
2006-06-08 06:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i recommend is you talk to your doctor about seeing a counselor and u have to remember that he'll always be with u Evan if u cant see him he'll live for ever in your heart so no madder what happens its no reason to take ur life it would only make things worse so ya talk to a counselor
2006-06-08 05:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by butterflykisses01247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust Me...
THIS TOO SHALL PASS!
Hold on to the memories!
Especially the funny & happy ones
Hang in there!
2006-06-14 19:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by Allie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋