I grow up with my 2 cousins. Were all the same age and I think of them as my brothers rather than cousins. I would like them to be in my wedding (my fiance doesn't have a problem with that) I really like the one's girlfriend and would like her to be in the wedding party also. My other cousins girlfriend on the other hand doesn't like me and I don't like her. Is it wrong of me to ask one cousins girlfriend to be in my wedding and not the other one?
2006-06-08 05:05:45 · 13 answers · asked by farmergyrl23 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The bridal party is always up to the bride and groom. The only thing I would say is to have another reason in case the other person asks you why they aren't in the wedding. Maybe you have known the other one longer, or you know her better then the other one. Just be prepared, most of the time they won't ask, but sometimes you will be surprised. Don't put someone in the wedding party you don't want because you will regret it and say I wish I really hadn't done that. You don't want to regret anything on that special day or about that special day.
2006-06-08 05:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong this is your day! Only choose bridesmaids who are there for you and show their support. Ask your cousin's girlfriend that you would like her to be in your wedding party. The other cousin's girlfriend (that you don't like) can just attend the wedding, if she wants. If the cousin's girlfriend (the one you don't like) asks you why she wasn't one of your bridesmaids, tell her there were other requests to be a bridesmaids but you are only limited to a few due to your budget. The last thing you want is a catfight at the wedding between the bride and the bridesmaid's, so you want to avoid that with your cousin's girlfriend (the one you don't like) LOL
2006-06-11 09:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. Heck, if you both know neither of you likes the other, what's the big deal? If it will hurt your cousin though, you may want to just not invite the other girlfriend to be in the wedding. Personally, I feel you should have people stand up for you that you have a great relationship with and are friends, not necessarily just because someone is a nice person.
2006-06-08 13:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no laws that govern what you *have* to do for your wedding (other than pay the vendors), so you don't *have* to do anything that you don't want to. If you want one but not the other, then only ask one, and not the other.
For my husband's best friends' weddings, other friends' fiancees & wives were parts of the wedding parties, but I was not. It was no big deal.
If you don't like her, then don't include her, but it may be wise to invite her to your shower or bachelorette party. If she doesn't like you, she probably won't even show.
Have a fabulous wedding and a wonderful marriage!
2006-06-08 12:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of your cousins are invited to the wedding, then most likely, they'll bring their girlfriends. You don't need to invite anyone personally. Just tell your cousins that they're girlfriends are invited and see who shows up.
2006-06-08 12:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all sweetie! This is your special day and the wedding party is for your closest friends and family And if she already doesn't like you don't worry....you won't make her any more mad! lol. Congratulations and ENJOY every second of it, it goes by WAY TOO FAST!
2006-06-08 12:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by mandie_mark_rep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, it's your wedding day, so who cares if she likes you or not. If you don't want her in your wedding, then don't ask her. It's totally fair.
2006-06-08 12:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by dolphins_chic_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It your wedding do what you want
2006-06-08 12:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by Great Gifts 4 Everyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to ask anyone. nobody really cares anyways. its really a hassle to get fitted, and refitted and refitted for dresses anyways.
2006-06-08 12:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by Presh4U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may
2006-06-08 12:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by seeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋