She said they met on myspace and he wanted to meet her. She asked if he had a g/f and he told her no. I asked him about it and he was mad I looked at his phone. He told me he was trying to fix up his freind with her and she wasnt clear about his intentions. I dont know if I believe him.
2006-06-08 05:03:41 · 25 answers · asked by loviebunnie2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What does he think you are, a moron? Hey, let him go, if he is doing this, you can bet, he'll do ti over & over again. Don't be stupid & good luck.
2006-06-08 05:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do already know you don't believe him. You wouldn't be posting this question if you believed him. Everything within you is telling you he's lying, isn't it? That's because he is. No man would call a woman late at night to try and hook her up with his buddy. I find it more insulting that he would come up with such a lame statement as that than him actually cheating.
I keep hearing about this "my space" perhaps it's a place you younger people hang out, at anyrate it seems to me to be nothing more than an online pick up spot. The fact that he's hanging out there in the first place is suspect. You just caught your boyfriend trying to cheat on you, and though he didn't actually do it this time, i'm sure it's not the first time it's occured. You have to ask yourself what you believe and what you want to happen next. If you stay with him there is a very real possibility that he will cheat on you again.
Also, you had no right to go into his cell phone, no matter what. How would you like it if he would have done that to you? If you have to check up on him then perhaps you shouldn't be with him.
2006-06-08 05:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myspace huh ... sounds like a mature relationship !
I don't think it really matters ... he was talking to another girl. I would trust your boyfriend until he gives you a reason not to. If you go around accusing him of cheating all the time then he'll start thinking you don't trust him & there's no reason why you should be with somebody you don't trust !
If these things happen again I would sit down and talk to him about the future of your relationship sounds pretty rocky !
2006-06-08 05:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well us ladies have this thing to where we need to check behind these men/boys that we call our selves liking or loving. A women only look and check a man things when she feels he's not honest, faithful and she don't trust him.
I feel like if you don't trust him and you haven't trust him before now then look out for yourself get you someone on the side. you said you ask him about it and he gotten mad that's BS if! it's nothing why would he get mad so what you looked in his phone what women don't go check and look no matter what it is.
And if he was so much trying to hook her up with a friend why couldn't he speak on it? Men think that they can do things and get away with it but little do they know there game is wick, they can lie and they can't hide nothing they tell on themselves just by their look . Sweetie look out for your self F*@# this men they an ****. Them and there got dam baby mama's.............................
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2006-06-08 05:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for her that she was cool with you! Most girls would say a few bad words and hang up. I wouldn't believe him. If his intentions were to set her up with his buddy, he would have told you about it...or at least not freak out on you about it. Sounds like he has a guilty conscious to me! And he must have given you prior reason not to trust him to cause you to check his phone. If I were you I'd get out before it got any worse.
2006-06-08 05:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a liar. His anger and flipping things around on you are admissions af GUILT! He took the focus off of his lies by getting mad at you. He's trying to hook up. My young friend just went through this with her man. Good luck.
2006-06-08 05:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by 4kidsmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a boyfriend is "meeting" other girls in any space---MYSPACE, or otherwise---and making other girls believe he is single, then it's time to "MAKE IT SO, NUMBER ONE."
If he is not going to be faithful and honor whatever commitment you too understand exists in your relationship, then it's time to kick him to the curb. Cheaters, liars, and manipulators make the choice to cheat, lie, and manipulate. You need to make the choice whether or not you want to be cheated on, lied to, and manipulated. That's you choice.
2006-06-08 05:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out the guys name she was going to meet from myspace. If its his friend then he was telling you the truth.
2006-06-08 05:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by vasteblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it`s a lie to he got mad because you found out.He is doing something and it dosent take einstein to figure that out. If I were you I would stay distant god knows what he could come back and give you.
2006-06-08 05:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay with him for a bit longer, any small thing that he has to do with her should set you off, you should leave him if he speaks to her again in public, even if it is harsh, you should make sure he knows it.
2006-06-08 05:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was u i wouldnt believe him cuz even though he said he was doing his friend a favor by hooking him up wit somebody he swears his friend doesnt have a mouth to hook himself up wit somebody and he should b worried bout himself and how ur feeling about this instead of trying to help out his friend=)
2006-06-08 05:09:16 · answer #11 · answered by Cesar D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋