My 11 year old daughter is very annoyed by this...Should I just mind my own business or should I speak up??? He is also the PTA president.
2006-06-08 04:45:23 · 11 answers · asked by smiley_mama 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
How inappropriate for him to be dating the school faculty. I'm not sure what you can do. Maybe you can put the idea in someone's head that as PTA president he should not be dating school faculty. Maybe enough parents will start hearing about it and give him a warning. Maybe this could be presented as a reason for him not being elected as PTA president again. Personally, I wouldn't want a PTA pres. dating the school faculty, it's unprofessional and a conflict of interest. Have you ever talked to him about it? Is he at all responsible as far as being a Dad? Maybe you could let him know how it makes your daughter feel, he needs to be made aware of how his behaviour is affecting your daughter, she's at a very sensitive age, between being a kid and a young woman. But if he will turn it around and think that you are doing it out of jealousy, maybe a neutral party could step in and talk to him, or your daughter herself could let him know how she feels.
2006-06-08 11:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by nimo22 6 · 4⤊ 3⤋
mind your own business, there is nothing wrong with his behavior. As president of the pta he has interaction with these people and time to form attraction, they are no different from someone he works with or goes to church with and he should be free to explore possible relationships.
2006-06-08 11:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyedprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's no longer your business. Stay out of it. If your daughter has a problem with it, she should take it up with him. Let her handle her own battles. Besides, hearing it from you - the ex-hubby will do it for spite.
2006-06-08 11:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently this parent is embarrassing his daughter and if he cares about her he'll keep his social matters private. I definitely agree the daughter should have a discussion with him.
It sounds to me like this guy can't keep his pecker out of the soup.
2006-06-08 12:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own if it bothers your daughter that much she needs to talk to dad. If she is uncomfortable doing it on her own and asks you for help its OK for you to be there when she talks to him, but only for support, she still needs to do the talking.
2006-06-08 11:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should read up on your daughter's school guidelines as far as relationships between the staff... I don't think it's harmful...YET... if your ex screws someone over, your daughter and her education can suffer
2006-06-09 02:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mexi Poff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think it's appropriate for him to have made his dating faculty members public knowledge. It's just poor taste.
2006-06-08 11:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it annoys your daughter then I would put my concerns to him in a amicable way. The way he chooses to respond either positive or negative is his choice, but at least you, and your daughter will know that you took your daughters concerns to him.
2006-06-08 12:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is his business. Children are often annoyed with their parents no matter what they do.
2006-06-08 11:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Unique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not your business it is your child business if she has a issue she should talk to her dad
2006-06-08 12:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by osaro_adu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋