he's kinda my boyfriend, (weve kissed, but we're not 'going out'), and he's usually pretty good about calling me when he says he will, so im kinda worried. i would call him, but i dont want to be clingy, and i dont want to push him if he doesnt want to talk to me. should i call him? am i overreacting? what should i do?
thanx ppl.
luv - broadwayblondie22
2006-06-08 04:16:25 · 26 answers · asked by broadwayblondie22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've kissed, but you're not going out! Then he's definitely not your boyfriend. If he hasn't called in over a week, he's sending you a clear message.
2006-06-08 04:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's usually good about calling you and hasn't called in a week, I'd be worried too. That's not being clingy, it's being concerned. I would probably call him and say just that. That you haven't heard from him in a week, which is not his usual pattern so you were a bit concerned. If he doesn't answer and you don't hear from him, after leaving a voicemail, then wait a day or two and check with some of his friends to make sure that someone is at least hearing from him. If they are, and he's just not getting back to you, then he's probably moved on and is with someone else.
To all ladies, here's a clue: If he's thinking about you, he WILL call. If he doesn't call, it's because he's not. Period.
2006-06-08 11:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky situation. First, he's not your boyfriend. You may want him to be but a kiss doesn't mean that he's your boyfriend. Second, if he kept calling you after you kissed then suddenly stopped he may just be busy. If you kissed and then he stopped calling, let it go, he's not interested. There are several different answers you can go with. If you feel panicy about this then maybe you shouldn't call him. Give it until 10 days if he hasn't called you by then he won't be calling you. Good Luck!
2006-06-08 11:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by TendaKiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, he may be seeing what interest you have in him, guys are kind of like that. CALL HIM! you will see that holding back from calling is just wasting time, the end result is going to happen no matter what so take the step. I am sure he would love to hear from you. You are not clingy unless you call him say 15 times in the next 30 minutes or so. Just do it!!!!!
2006-06-08 11:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sending a txt in stead of calling. That way you look less desperate. Just ask him how he is and if he maybe wants to do something this weekend. Say you might be going out with some friends does he want to come with. He can only say no sweety. If he does, chuck him and get someone else. Nobody deserves to be ignored for a week!
2006-06-08 11:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should call. If you are somewhat seeing each other then there isn't any reason not to call him. 2 or 3 days pass and he hasn't called you. You need to pick up a phone and call him. Maybe he is tired of being the one that calls all the time. If he acts weird then ask him straight up what is going on and you can go from there.
2006-06-08 11:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the good old days! Don't call him. He is playing games with you. He may like you, but he is keeping you on a string in case someone better comes along. If he doesn't call you AT LEAST every other day, he's just not that into you!
2006-06-08 11:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be difficult, but I would break down and call or at least send an e-mail. He may have strong feelings for you and not know how to deal with them. That is how it was for me after I met the love of my life. Good luck!
2006-06-08 11:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one, you do sound like you are over reacting. it is summer time so he may be on a trip or something. why dont you give him a call. maybe he is testing you to see if you will make an effort. i know if i make all the calls, i would begin to wonder if you really want to talk to me
2006-06-08 11:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by goldenfour7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not overreacting just call him maybe he has been really busy and forgot trust me if he doesn't want to talk to you when you call him he will tell you and then you will truly know if you are wasting your time with him or not.
2006-06-08 11:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋