2006-06-08 04:06:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont feel like you have to do it just because hes ready... if your not ready then dont do it you dont want to end be 15 and pregnant like i was... when your ready youll know it and you can tell him if he loves you hell wait till your ready... trust me its so much better when your ready too. good luck
2006-06-08 04:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by mommy and me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are usually always ready before the girls. Don't ever give up or do anything you don't want to do because of words that he throws at you. Even if he says "If you love me you will!"! Your body is yours and yours alone. You do with it what you want to and nothing else. Don't ever fall for pressure! You also have to live with the consequences, so use protection if you do feel that you are ready!
2006-06-08 04:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by T2Step 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that you aren't ready and let him know why. How you feel about it. Talk it over and make sure you understand each other. Maybe there is some underlying reason why your not ready and talking it over will help to bring that out. Then you can move on from there.
2006-06-08 04:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the reason that I'm not "ready". If I just feel a little tired or something, I usually go along with it because at some point I am going to feel really wonderful! If I am sick or really have a head ache or something, I just tell him.
2006-06-08 04:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not ready. In doing this he may move on because he is ready.
2006-06-08 04:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by Unique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy being ready before a girl is perfectly normal. dont rush any thing. just remember that sex is like a bank account. the longer you save it the more benefits. he should understand where youre coming from.
2006-06-08 04:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by miriam_santiago88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell him you're not ready. Don't force yourself to do anything you're not sure you want to do just yet. If he cares about you then he will understand and be willing to wait.
2006-06-08 04:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by bluesie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know your not ready and if he can't deal with that then don't give in and in the long run it will be his loss
2006-06-08 04:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get ready
2006-06-08 04:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by rubzebred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not ready and if he loves you he'll understand but if he doesn't understand he's not worth knowing.
Good Luck
2006-06-08 04:09:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋