how long should is long enough to "stay upset" with ur bf? if u forgive easily, he'll hurt u more often.
2006-06-08 04:03:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't let tomorrow sun meet today anger
2006-06-08 04:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by rubzebred 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Someone doesn't hurt you more easily if you forgive them. They hurt you more easily if you continue to put yourself in the same situation. If your bf is hurtful in general, it's time to go. But to try to create some artifical time line/rule about how long to be mad is a sign of not being mature enough to have a healthy relationship. Forgive him. Then decide if it's a relationship you should stay in or not.
2006-06-08 12:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by hiddenhotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, staying upset "that long" can be taken as you don't love the bf and all you care is his faults. If you love him, there's no such thing as "forgive easilly", just forgive him and do make terms that he'll never hurt you again soon enough because you know when you love, getting hurt is not avoidable.
2006-06-08 11:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by *♥£öVe§♥* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really put a time limit on it.
And a lot of the "upset" depends on what happened to get you in that mood.
A final thought: forgiveness is within your power and to do so shows that you've taken another step towards maturity.
2006-06-08 11:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sooner you forgive the better you will feel, mentally and physically. However, you have a decision to make. You must learn to deal with what made you upset or leave him because most likely he will do it or say it again.
2006-06-08 11:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by Unique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confused about your question. there is no such thing as too long when you're mad at someone. it depends on what the person did to piss u off. U have to evaluate the situation and see if the person is worth forgiving. If their not, then move on. why sit around being mad forever.
2006-06-08 11:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by phillymami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mad for a long time is couter productive. If something makes you mad it is an opportunity to comunicate. If it is not possible grow and change together, there is no reason to stay in the relationship.
2006-06-08 11:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mike H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well really if he's treating you wrong like really wrong or hits you should cut it off immediatly once a hitter always a hitter you should never just settle with a guy!!! all relationships cause pain you just have to find the one that is worth hurting for. - taylor
2006-06-08 11:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by dahot_tomboy14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong answer. But I do agree if you give in to a problem to quickly he will think it wont be so bad the next time.
2006-06-08 11:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till the time he has begged for forgiveness atleast three times
2006-06-08 11:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by cheenu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the problem a day......... but any longer then there is no point going out with each other.
2006-06-08 11:05:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋