how wud he know it is her fist time ??
by her gestures ?
by her actions ?
by style ? or by wat ??
2006-06-08 03:32:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all women bleed the first time. If he doesnt believe you show him a medical book showing how the hymen can break at anytime like riding a bike doing sports not just sex.
2006-06-08 03:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by bree30 4 · 8⤊ 2⤋
She shouldn't have to prove that she was a virgin. If she told him that he should beleive her. If he doesn't believe her he should do some research and know that not all women bleed when they have intercourse for the first time. Marriage is supposed to be based on love, trust, and compassion among many other things. If those aspects aren't there for him to trust his wifes word then I wonder about the future of the marriage.
2006-06-08 10:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by vancie121 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're all correct...not everyone bleeds.
Perfect example...I did not bleed when the man I was babysitting for molested and raped me when I was a young girl. Maybe if I had it would have scared me enough to tell my parents. I was very young and naive.
Your word should be enough. He should love and respect you enough to take you for your word. If he doesn't, then he's not worth the effort in trying to convince him. Trust is one of the most important things in any relationship...Love and Respect are the other two. Good luck. :)
2006-06-08 10:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by Artemis M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all women bleed the first time the have sex. I didn't bleed my first time. A man should know by her tightness, the way she is nervious,she will probably ask you to take it slow, she might cry, there is a lot of signs but you should probably take her word!
2006-06-08 10:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by ProudSexySouthernGirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love her, why should it matter if shes a virgin? not all women bleed their first time. there is really no real way to know for sure. even if she acts like she knows what shes doing its still no way to tell. you will have to just trust her if she says she is a virgin
2006-06-08 10:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by l81ucky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women dont bleed when they first do it, so he just have to take your word for it, and he should know by the way you act when he first enters in you.
2006-06-08 10:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He would now because if it just slips in he would now you aint its the feeling. But if its hard to go in on the first time he is gonna know right away you havent had intercourse
2006-06-08 10:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her by her word, maybe the peebug wasn't big enough to make her bleed. by the way maybe she was finger before and that could have caused it because that happened to me so maybe all i would do is take her word. it not you are dumed in that marriage from the beginning
2006-06-08 10:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by LOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the kind of question people of certain ethnic persuations find important. You sir, are an immature idiot who doesn't deserve any girl. You are condemmed to a life of mistrust. All of your relationships will end badly. You will never be happy.
2006-06-08 10:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is really no way to tell unlees the bleeding. if you are a virgin and dont bleed on your first time, oh well it happens sometimes.
2006-06-08 10:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋