Ok my girlfriends was supposed to be out of town until last night well I figured she might be home now so I go to call my girlfriend and talk to her, well the operator says the number is disconnected. She's always on AIM whether she's there or not, but I fly off the handle and say she's ignoring me and that she's a liar and basically that she is B****. Well today I woke up and got aim messages from her saying she changed her number because her ex kept calling her and she was going to give me new number last night and that she missed me and she couldn't wait to talk to me. Well now she is extremly upset and doesn't know if she wants to be with me now. So my question is, what can i do to make this up to her?
2006-06-08 03:20:57 · 69 answers · asked by Hopeless122 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my that is a mess...so she is still out of town? Get flowers to her ASAP and make sure to kiss her *** the next time you see her. You owe her big time.
2006-06-08 03:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by carolinayaya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's close to midnight and something evil's lurking
in the dark
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your heart
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you make it
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'Cause this is thriller, thriller night
And no one's gonna save you from the beast about to
strike
You know it's thriller, thriller night
You're fighting for your life inside a killer,
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You hear the door slam and realize there's nowhere
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You're out of time
2006-06-13 14:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the phone was disconnected, why DID you get upset with her? That could have even been the result of a billing error or something. Okay but now, how to get out of it? It sounds like you are trying to control stuff in a way or something and that is not what a relationship is about - accusing someone of something BEFORE you get the facts. I think the only thing is - is to admit that you accused her before you got the facts and that you'll never do it again and ask her if she can please forgive you? That would have upset me too.
2006-06-08 03:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely....A Big Beautiful Boquet of Flowers is definitely the way to go. Plus, the BIGGEST, Humble-est apology you can possibly muster, Buster!
There is a saying that goes "Love means never having to say you're sorry." Well that's WRONG. The people you love most are the FIRST people you should apologize to when you've done wrong.
Always give someone the benefit of the doubt. Never fly off the handle until you've actually talked to them.
2006-06-08 03:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to not suck!
You've got to work on your temper, dude. Are you that insecure that a disconnected number would make you think she's ignoring you? What if she didn't pay her bill? What if she changed her number?
There are so many other reasons for the number change, that for you to assume that she's ignoring you after one night of trying to call her is absolutely ridiculous!
If she does take you back (which I would recommend against!) you need to learn to get your partner's side of the story before you flip out over something so inconsequential. Good communication is paramount.
Be well.
2006-06-08 03:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by Geshko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you screwed up. never assume cause it makes an *** out of you. Always wait for an explaination before you fly off the handle. The only thing you can do is beg for forgiveness and hope shes a forgiving person. You also need to get a handle on your temper.
2006-06-08 03:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
number 1 how old are you, how long have you been with her..it your young like 14 17 yrs old let her go. you messed up yes you did but your young it wont last anyway your in high school your gonna meet all types of girls then college let it go dont be serious with no one have a great high school year and keep it movin. if your 20 and up talk to her explain yourself. guys think gifts candies will work no a real woman wants a man who is able to speak he's mind not afraid to show a girl he's feelings let her know you messed up ur sorry you liek her alot and u let ur bad judgement get in the way your really sorry it wont happin again. talk from your heart not the other thing you guys usually talk from
2006-06-13 11:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious that you have some problems now. But in acctuall fact everybody makes mistakes and if she cant see it that way then she's not the one for you. Get a bottle of wine, candles and some romantic music. Pack a picnic basket and meet with her some place quiet and safe. Explain to her your emotions and what you felt. it seems more to me that you are insecure about your relationship and that the problem can only be solved within yourself.
2006-06-14 04:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend you made a mistake but the best way and of which i am 100% sure that she will be ok is
somehow make her to read this question that you wrote for the people to answer
you will see that she will be back with you
and as she is out of town send her as many red roses as many hours you have felt guilty
she will be back with you
god luck
2006-06-14 01:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by Fahd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately, there is nothing you can do to make it up to her. She either chooses to forgive you or not. What you need to do is figure out WHY you flew off the handle and why you are so insecure. Even if your girlfriend doesn't stay with you, you will need to work on those issues of insecurity so you do not invite that negativity into your next relationship.
2006-06-13 02:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by hep216 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off the computer, go to the flower shop, buy some roses, go to her house and plead forgiveness. You idiot, don't do that again. She will probably take you back, but you need some soul searching pal. You give men a bad rep. I hope you dont ever hit her either. You better not. Be nice and loving to her.
2006-06-08 03:27:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋