There's a guy i been talking to for some time now and he's a very nice guy. He told me that he liked me and have feelings for me but can't act on them right now. He is married and have one child but is separated from his wife and has been for 5 years now and is in proceedings in divorcing her. He's had trouble with her in the past way before we meet and when i did meet him he just kept telling me how she did him wrong and everything and how he is divorcing her, But now that were closer all he want is CSR (Casual Sex Relation) and im not for that. I really don't want to deal with him in that way right now until the divorce is final and he is ready to move on. He tells me to to wait but keeps stalling on the divorce proceedings. Does that mean he's not really ready to move on and should i just go on with my life and just be friends.
2006-06-08 03:08:45 · 11 answers · asked by Ivy B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should go on with your life and be just friends... and yes you are right... if you two are meant to be... then he can approach you again after the divorce proceedings and talk about your future
2006-06-08 03:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by boyang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this, but it sounds as though, he loves his wife..or is attached to her..that's why he's stalling on the divorce procedures. Meanwhile, he wants to have sex with you to fullfil that emptiness in his life. It looks like he just wants to use you while he's making up his mind about his wife---or trying to get over her. I would stay away.
2006-06-08 10:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Doodles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not ready! he's just playing you girl. stay away from him. you don't want to get involved in a divorce issue. is messy and can get pretty nasty. you shouldn't even keep him as a friend! you deserve so much better than beign mislead by false promises
2006-06-08 10:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life and just be friends cause a he sounds like he doesnt want to leave his wife and only wants you for a booty call.
2006-06-08 10:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are even asking this question you should kick him out of your life for good. Also, there are always two sides to a story!!
2006-06-08 10:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by trinity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hey hey, not even friends. Just cut him outta ur life. Its just temptation thats pulling you towards his. But if you want a CSR (as you call it!) as well, then why not?
2006-06-08 10:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the antics most married man say when they wanted to win you over... Don't be mislead... Kick him out!
2006-06-08 10:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should let him know how you feel talk to him about it . And then what he says is how you should know what to do.
2006-06-08 10:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.731 Tenn-a-key 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DROP HIM!!! he's playing games with you..thats someone i wouldnt trust!
2006-06-08 10:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sicko
2006-06-08 10:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋