I am four feet and nine inches tall but only 100 lbs. I have have a strong educated background. I am very successful. And I stay home every night! HELP!
2006-06-08 02:59:50 · 11 answers · asked by Mary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am four feet nine inches tall and only 100 lbs. I have a strong educated background. My guys and I go out doing "guy" things together, and occasionally hit the town as a group. I've tried to date one of them, he left me b/c we "were too close to date".
2006-06-08 03:12:39 · update #1
Well if you want a date i suggest you one thing. Go and look for some other guy and go for a date with him. Let the guys in your group get jealous of you and realise that you're a gal and you've your feelings too. If they realise its well and good, if not at least you're with some other guy. Even if you're not dating anyother guy just pretend it for a while to them and be excited. Praise this imaginary guy b4 them. Create jealosy. Show some attitude. Be hard to get. Trust me you'll date anyone soon.
2006-06-08 03:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
While your educated background speaks well for you, staying home every evening is not a good way to meet new people. Obviously the 20-something guys you are close to are either not interested or too shy/confused/engaged/whatever to express their interest to you. Since good communication is the key to a good relationship, I suggest finding a new social group, maybe explore one of your interests that you haven't fully expanded upon yet.
Also perhaps communicating that you are interested in forming relationships that are deeper might help if you DO want one of the 2-something guys you are friends with to bond more intimately.
2006-06-08 03:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by Chris L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask some of your guy friends to go out to places with you. If that doesn't turn into anything then maybe try goin out with a girl friend somewhere and meeting guys. If that doesn't work there's always online. And while it sounds like a nerd thing to do I met my girlfriend online and we've been together for almost 10 months now and live together. There's a lot of people meeting others online now a days. Try one of the free sites like myspace.com or hotornot.com (that's the one I met my g/f on).
2006-06-08 03:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by kmbaum2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have lots of friends obviously and surely some if not all of them have shown more than a passing interest in you at one time or another so why do you stay home instead of going out with some of them?
2006-06-08 03:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u live near albany new york i love 2 take u out on a date, i stay home every night 2, im trying 2 fine someone 2 be with friends or something more if ur interested email me ohboy152000@yahoo.com thank u
2006-06-08 03:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by ohboy152000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be cool always ok. try to get out of your home dont sit alone. try to keep talking always then you will get out from your problems. If you want you can mail me on manju_agar1@yahoo.co.in
2006-06-08 03:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Manju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking one out. They'll probably like that.
2006-06-08 03:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stop staying home, get out there and mingle girl
2006-06-08 03:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out sometimes. if you like to chat email me.
2006-06-08 03:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face your fears ,ask for one
2006-06-08 03:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Sgt. Fletcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋