For once,this isn't about me.:-)I have a very good friend who got married 13yrs ago.She met her husband and married him a month later.He was an illegal mexican.They applyed for his green card that same year.Two years later they recieved it and she got pregnant with their only child a year later.Well,their daughter is 11yrs old and he's still here.Never went and left her,and are happily married.How many americans can say they met their spouse and got married within a month and are together 13yrs later?Why is it so hard to imagine mexican men loving their american spouses?Well,Sandra and Jesus Cruz managed it,as have I-although only for 8yrs so far.She also wanted everyone to know that they have never recieved any public assistance and even when they applyed for medicaid for their daughter,were turned down.Sandra has many medical bills,and her medicine equals about 300$ a month.Jesus has payed this for years with no complaint.Is it still hard to beleive?
2006-06-08 02:58:59 · 32 answers · asked by Fluttery 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
Yes,my friend asked me to write this.So,yeah,she knows.
2006-06-08 03:09:01 · update #1
IRONHEAD---you have something to say about Everything I write--lol!It's starting to amuse me.I must be special cause you even single me out now.
2006-06-08 03:19:01 · update #2
im from the uk and met my husdand while he was working there we were married 7 month later ,it will be 25 years this october.we have 4 kids 3 grankids.when i came over here to live they gace me 6 months i had to get and exteniton it my perm red card came.you did answer my question but i took it off,i know you are suposed to take the answers but some people made it seem that i was taking from this country and thats not so.since the card i got said entitled to work and reside permanently in the us and after 24 years of having that same card did not realize ir had expaired 5 months ago.and no i never got a letter. thank you .and yes people can stay together after knowing each other a short time.good luck to you all
2006-06-09 06:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by greeneyes634970 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, they can marry anyone who is an american citizen, they certainly don't have to be white. Black and Indian women can provide this, too. BTW this is one benefit of marriage that gay people do not have access to. Only heterosexual marriages provide/allow for the spouse to stay in US. One more way gay people are disciminated against because they can't marry.
2006-06-08 03:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that was his inital intent and then he fell in love with her....sorry I can't help but think illegals do not have the thought in the back of their mind that there is a possiblity of getting a greencard if they marry this woman. Same thing if you marry a millionare...yes you are attracted first for the reason of money and then maybe you do fall in love with him..however it is always in the back of your mind that you are 'set for life' if you happen to seperate.
2006-06-08 03:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and Pancha need to hook up, you think its OKAY to be here ILLEGALLY!! Why don't you and your friend take Pancha and your ILLEGAL husbands back to Mexico. You make me sick trying to make a heart warming story out of a horror story. Will not fly, you are wrong and so is your friend and you should be in jail for harboring a fugitive.Do you not understand the term ILLEGAL?
2006-06-08 08:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not become legal by getting married anymore.That law has been changed.I married a mexican 17 years ago and we have 2 children and are still married.That statement isn't true.
2006-06-08 04:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by hyecats1968 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*yawn* you are so boring everytime I look at this site I see your freakin name omg Get over it if your so happy in your freakin marriage and she is to then fine go for it be happy but shut up my god this isn't about your life or your beaner loving friends life this is about America and the fact that alot of mexicans do that to our white American women. Sheesh if you and your friend love them so much then move to Mexico. My goodness
God Bless the South and may she rise agin :)
2006-06-08 04:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They not only love and leave white women to get a green card, they will do it to black women also. What you describe is an "anchor marriage." He anchors himself to America and then his relatives fill the immigration quotas to come here. Hispanic women do this also as well as do Asian men and women.
2006-06-08 04:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More and more illegal aliens will be cajoling legal citizens into marriage or impregnating them in order to become legal and collect what they feel they are 'owed' from our Country. They will be 'with' their own kind. The case you mentioned is a rare one.
2006-06-08 03:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been married myself for years. No one has anything against the people-they do not like lawbreakers! No matter who or what they are-D o - Y o u -U n d e r s t a n d ?
2006-06-08 03:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by *** The Earth has Hadenough*** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM SURE MANY AMERICANS CAN SAY THEY HAVE GOTTEN MARRIED WITHIN A MONTH. I PERSONALLY THINK THAT MARRYING A PERSON AND NOT KNOWING THEM THAT WELL IS NOT GOOD JUDGEMENT BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE MISTAKEN LUST FOR LOVE!!! AND JESUS PROBABLY WOULD RATHER STAY IN U.S. BECAUSE THE MEXICAN GOVT SUCKS!!!! ILLEGAL IS ILLEGAL!!!
BOOBOO, DON'T GET EXCITED BECAUSE I HAVE SINGLED YOU OUT! I DON'T AGREE WITH SOME OF YOUR COMMENTS AND YOU DON'T AGREE WITH MINE. AND IT DOES NOT AMUSE ME THAT YOU THINK BEING AN ILLEGAL ALIEN IS OKAY.
2006-06-08 03:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋