we have been together for 6 and 1/2 mounts
2006-06-08 02:50:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's so wrong with asking questions? If he's not guilty of something, then he should be willing to talk about it, as long as you're being reasonable and not trying to interrogate him as if he was a murder suspect.
He's showing an unwillingness to communicate which might be symptomatic of something larger: he's trying to decieve you or make himself out to be more than he truly is. By not aknowledging the rumors and the validity of them, he's showing some very suspiscious traits. Be alert and be assertive... you're emotions and time are in the balance.
2006-06-08 02:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by Derkum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the kind of rumors:)And the kind of relationship that you guys had untill now.
If he never gave you anything to worry about and then you just popped out with these rumors,just like that...it's normal for him to be upset.But you should tell him that by asking him about it,instead of just acting upon it,you prooved that you have faith in him and in your relationship.You gave him the chance to talk it over with you,and he shouldn't be so angry.
BUT...if there were rumors before,and his behaviour did anything to make you believe these rumors were true,that he is angry because you caught him,so he's not really worth it:)you better check those rumors,just in case
2006-06-08 10:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by cristina a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest if he is upset abput you asking that proberly means he's guilty. If he was not he would not be so upset. Rumors are everywhere if they were not true it would not be an issue. If he makes it an issue that he much have something to hide.
2006-06-08 09:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by dolphin29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think yall should just talk things over, and i believe instead of asking bout some rumors you should have talked to him from the beginning.bcuz if yall are real serious about your relationship then let nothing seperate yall. bcuz if ya do then you're going to regret this 4-real. so just talk it over with him if you really care about him don't let him go.
2006-06-08 10:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by dynasties101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
Maybe the truth about these rumours should be searched for because it true that there is no smoke without fire even if you see the smoke first the fire will follow.
Half the time the rumors are true
2006-06-08 09:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by rachael m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. If he doesn't trust you, and believes rumors, then your relationship couldn't mean that much to him.If he want to go,let him go. A relationship without trust can never endure.
2006-06-08 09:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u realy like him then ask him about the rumors and try to work this out but if he is realy mint to be with u then he will stay but if u dont realy like him break up with him befor he breaks up with u
2006-06-08 09:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that they are just rumors then let it go. Because rumors are just lies.
2006-06-08 09:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by Dance Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if that is the case, he is just looking for an excuse to get out.
2006-06-08 09:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Jeni~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
based on what he's doing and because its true and he feels guilty and he's denying, thats why he says he will break up with u, let him do whatever he wants.
2006-06-08 09:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋