2006-06-08 02:40:37 · 50 answers · asked by angel 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a good girl by the way. And i always tend to listen and understand, i do everything for a man and they just take me for granted.
2006-06-08 04:42:22 · update #1
Funny, I'm having problems finding a match..
Oh wait, we might be looking for different things.
Guess that's why we all have to either, wear a sign that tells everyone what we are about, or we have to sit and talk.
Or do a bit of both.
And then the hard part is being honest with that other person so that we really find out if we want what the other is offering.
Many times people spin what they think the other person wants to hear to "win" them, then later those pesky little problems start popping up. And then the women want the men to grow up, and the men want the women to keep giving lap dances. Neither understands why the other changed or won't change from before the dating started.
Ooops did I let secret slip out?
2006-06-08 02:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would be all that hard for you to find a good guy but maybe you're not because of where you're looking as opposed to what you expect in a guy. When we're looking for that right significant other the best way to find them is to first have a clear set of expectations as to what we want to find in someone. Once we know what those are then those expectations are going to translate into a specific type of personality and people tend to be habitual with respect to where they like to spend their time and what they like to do. So, if you translate those expectations into a specific personality type then you're going to have a better idea of where that kind of person is most likely to be met.
2006-06-08 02:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason some guys find it hard to find good women.
And in all honesty, are you sure it's them, and not you?
And if it is them, then it's because you just haven't found a match compatible to you yet. If each individual is unique, then that means that are about 6 billion different personalities. I'm sure you can find SOMEONE.
2006-06-08 02:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there aren't very many. I know they're out there. Most of them are married, and will stay that way because they're the good ones who know what committment is.
I keep hearing, "it's not about finding the right one, it's about being the right one." Get your life in order, and the right man should magically appear? I think it means if you have your priorities straight and are doing things you enjoy, the guy you want will be in some part of your life and see that you're the right one for him.
2006-06-08 02:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen I feel the same way, I give and give and give, but never am I asked out. I think it is because I am fat! I wait on my guy friends hand and foot what do I get, "wow this is great food, can I have more????" So what they take me for granted because I am good at math and school and I hate it, so what I am excellent at cooking also I have a lot of tricks up my sleeves. I really need a boyfriend!!!!
2006-06-10 10:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by duanetcd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you consider to be a "good guy" and where you're looking for the said gentleman. If you're looking for a kind, gentle, affectionate man and you happen to be cruising around looking in biker bars, then I'd say you might want to change your strategy...
But seriously, consider what it is you want in a partner. From there, think about where you would probably find someone who would interest you and fit most of your characteristics.
2006-06-08 02:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by Derkum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying " If you are good,the world is good". So if you
are good it will not be hard to find a good guy. Wish you a best of
luck.
2006-06-08 02:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to find good guy coz they arent many good girls out there. this is one of the main reason which has cause guys to turn bad. When they get the opportunity given by girls then thats when they start being bad. Have u think of how many good girls out there?
2006-06-08 03:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by witch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of the answers you have been sent are,well strange to say the least.
listen there are good guys,am i a good guy,i have no idea,thats for others to decide.
i think for every bad guy there is a bad girl and i think ive been out with most of them.lol.
girls have made us men cry also,and i have certainly shed tears in the past.
but there are good guys and hopefully good girls out there.
mike
2006-06-08 09:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by listener06y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you can't handle a good guy. There is one standing right in front of you but you look the other way because you rather have the one who is painting walls, robbing stores, or saying F*ck the police.
2006-06-08 02:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Yondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋