2006-06-08 02:36:27 · 11 answers · asked by ♥§weetiepie♥ 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Unfortunately, there isn't much you can say in condolence to her. Just let her know that you are there for her if she needs a shoulder to cry on, an ear to vent to, etc.
This is going to be a very trying time for her and her family, as such, she is going to need as much support as you can provide, if it is nothing more than cooking meals for her and her family for a few days until she can get her arms around this tragedy.
It speaks volumes that you desire to comfort you sister-in-law, she will need it desperately.
2006-06-08 02:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Plain_Common_Sense 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're so sorry to hear what's happened. Just be there for her. Let her talk and cry. If you can, just help her with house. Like cleaning, cooking, laundry, watching the kids, letting the dog out or whatever.
She might seem like everything is alright in a few weeks but she'll be missing her. Reach out to her and just be there as a friend to lean on.
2006-06-08 09:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by fiestyredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh; I'm sorry to hear that. Sometimes just your physical presence is enough. Let her know she's not alone. If she needs anything, she can ask you. Hug her. Love on her. Allow her to set the tone & you respond in kindness. Some genture of kindness might be nice, like some flowers or simply a card.
2006-06-08 09:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to find a place in my heart where I could see the positive points about this person. Consult with her relations, and get their views too, and together, face the tradition of fare-welling our departed. It's a sad fact of life that departures do happen, and when they're brought on by the person themselves; well one has to have compassion, because no one would actually do something like this if they were able to get their situation handled.
Hope this helped, and good luck.
2006-06-08 09:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you are her sister more than ever before, as she really need you now at this moment of grief, don't say anything to alarm her feelings or she could be hurt from, say to her that life must goes on, and both of you are strong enough to face reality.
My God receive her soul in Heaven where she will find her peace.
2006-06-08 09:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by Walt. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go light on the word...don't over do it just be there...maybe you could invite her over or visit her and just let her know you are truely wanting to help her ( unlike the dozens of people that will say "if you need anything call me") and let her lead the coversation...maybe she is ready to share maybe she is not ...both are ok at this point... reflect on the good things that are brought up and try to steer clear of blame, on anyone!!!
2006-06-08 09:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by JeNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say that you are very sorry for her loss and that if she needs to talk or wants to do something special and spend time with someone that she can call you.
2006-06-08 09:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sorry.This will take time.She needs to get to the root of the problem,maybe she was terminally ill or something,but she needs to believe it was not her fault.Therapy eventually would help,but she needs friends and family.
Be her friend.
2006-06-08 09:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat it the same as anybody else's death.
Express your condolences and offer any help or comfort if they need it.
2006-06-08 09:40:23 · answer #9 · answered by J.D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not: I am sorry for your loss, let me know if there is anything i can do for you.
and be sure to offer her help if you can.
2006-06-08 09:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋