hi
i am divyank pathak age-- 17
i want to tell you my love story and want solution. hope you would help me best.
i know a girl (age--16) from childhood. we were friends but not so close.
i started loving her a year back, and when i proposed her she accepted it. then she told me that she loved a boy who left him alone, and will love her till the end of her life. she says that i are my love but he is her true love.
she have promised me that she will marry me only. we understand each other very well. she tell that her heart dont allow her to marry anyone but she wants a support. when i came to know that she dont love me, she always think about the her love and will continue to do so, i was heartbreaked knowing this. but i accepted her but not happy at all.
will she ever love me from deep heart?
what should i do now?
2006-06-08 02:19:31 · 9 answers · asked by divyank 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Divyank, marriage should be a commitment of ones love for each other...it sounds like your chosen partner is sincere but for the wrong reasons, she needs someone that can support her, that would be you, but her heart belongs to another...I understand in some cultures marriages are arranged based on who can be the best provider, but what I hear your words speak is that you also want a loving relationship too...and thats the part that I understand...I do not feel your going to get this from your partner...her accepting without loving you is one thing, that may develop later, however, accepting your proposal and already loving someone else may not ever change...you will live with a broken heart that she can not truly mend...everyone deserves to be happy...look for a partner who loves you...and allow her to seek her own happiness elsewhere...good luck.
2006-06-08 02:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Divyank you are just 17 years old and at that age with no responsibilities and you are doing absolutely OK!. But honestly that's not how everything works. As you grow up things will change and even the girl might change (and i am 99% sure she will).
But the time and effort you put in here will never ever come back in your life time so its better to leave these things to future. I too wasted several years on a girl who just turned away one day for no good reason! but i learned it the hard way. She too said similar stuff to me as ur GF said but never kept her promise!
So better get over these things for future as its not love . Its called infatuation and it will go away if you and your GF stay apart for 3-4 months.
hope that helps
2006-06-08 02:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by syd_guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look i know you may love this girl but you both are very young. When I was youe age I wanted to marry this girl in school we dated for 3 years. Then i got older and started to go out into the world and I realized that there is alot of other girls out there. If she loves someone else though I think the best thing for you to do is to try and move on and find some one else.
2006-06-08 02:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find someone who can love you for you it's crystal clear from the young lady on her feelings she doesn't love you in the same light as you do her the support she asks for from you is that she was honest with you. as for marriage i advise either of you marrying each other she would only be doing such based on a promise and not for love, and hoping she will in love with you after lets say marriage seldom if ever happens i would advise finding someone else who can actually love you for you. a marriage without love is usually doomed.
2006-06-08 02:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she wants to have her cake and eat it too. It's time for you to move on, your in second place and always will be unless she can get over that true love of hers and even then it's a maybe because she just might never get over him. You can still love her but try as hard as you can as a friend. That means you might have to take a couple of months to get over her yourself but support her in her love interest. She would love you dearly for that. Sometimes you have to let the one you love go to love them completely...
2006-06-08 02:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by Yondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is stuck on this other guy, she may not love you the way you want her to. Just move on.
2006-06-08 02:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont marry her if she doesn't love you
2006-06-08 02:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't merry her she is just playing with u
2006-06-08 03:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by irene c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it,all sadness my friend...
2006-06-08 02:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋