my boyfriend just finished ,me yesterday for the tenth time and i love him and want to be with him but i dont want to be with someone that will finish me after an arguement and i know he wont change but my head just so messed up and i dont know what to do so please help and but got 5 kids by different ppl and he only see's one and he tell's me he dont see the other four cos they left him soon as they had the babys and he's living in a men's hostel and smokes dope so what you think i should do
2006-06-08 01:48:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him he's only going to cause more pain in the future and besides he smokes dope I mean your future would probably be recked if you stayed with him.
2006-06-08 04:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by psyco girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say get rid.
The guy cannot be good for you and you have 5 little children who need your love and attention far more than any man, especially one who is going to come in and out of yours and the childrens life on a regular basis.
Children need stability and a nice homely atmosphere, if you and your ex partner argue all the time its not a good atmosphere to bring up the children.
They should be your first priority!
2006-06-08 02:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by cljp2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three words ... FORGET ABOUT HIM. If he's got five kids and smokes dope AND lives in a men's hostel, he's no good for anyone, never mind you.
2006-06-08 02:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by HiFi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, love, but I'd have thought after about 3 times you should have realised this was a bad relationship, by 5 times you'd have really learned your lesson, but 10 TIMES?????
2006-06-08 02:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by eriverpipe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away very fast dope is nothing to play with and you will just be baby 6 momma and he won't see you no more neither. i wouldn't have given the chance to screw up my head like he has yours call a friend tell them what's up and get help to leave before he messes up your life
2006-06-08 01:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aint you a big ol bundle of low self worth and esteem...why would you let someone treat you this way and why would you "love" someone like this? this isn't love, you need to seek counseling to understand why you are in this situation and comfortable enough to ask if you should leave....if you do not understand your motivations, you'll find another loser just like this one, so if you aint gonna get help, don't bother leaving
2006-06-08 01:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid once and for all, this relationship isn't healthy for you or your kids. To be in love is one thing but to be taken for a ride is another and that is wot he is doing using you when and how he feels.
2006-06-08 02:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please! Gather up what little pride you still have left and LEAVE HIS SORRY ***!!
It really shouldn't be necesary for you to ask a question like this to complete strangers, there is such a thing as common sense.
Good luck.
2006-06-08 01:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl leave that man alone... you may love him and care for him. BUT.............. what is he actually offering to you. What can he give you?? Not necessarily monetary.. but what can he provided. Companionship, love, conversation, trust, respect, honesty, does he have a J.O.B????????
Life it to short. You cannot teach old dogs new tricks! You can leave a horse to water but, cannot make him drink.
DONT WASTE YOUR TIME
2006-06-08 01:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who will do that to you, you really should not be with them. He is not worth your tears. Move on and find someone who will love you and treat you right.
2006-06-08 02:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by Katty83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋