I work 5 days a week 12 hours a day and be a mom and a wife when i get home.
2006-06-08 01:45:35 · 18 answers · asked by Liza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get your hubby to help out more. If he won't, then go on strike. How old are your kids? If they're old enough, they should have chores. No one should have to work more than others in a family.
2006-06-08 03:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Garfield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let em fool you. That is a life. But if you aren't doing what you want to do - you have to figure out what that is. What is missing for you? Do you wanna go hiking, do you wanna go dancing, or do you want to socailize with other moms. Often the local church can be good with things like this if you get involved.....Remember not all churches are the same. Sometimes you have to find the right one for you. Somethin about that doesn't sound right but it is true that some ppl just prefer different styles and different ppl feel more comfortable in different atmospheres. You get what I'm saying I am sure. Good Luck.
2006-06-08 01:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by rainsparrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me I know the pain. I work swing shifts at 12 hours a pop. Sounds like you need to change jobs to lessen the stress and that way you would have more time for the kids which should be your life not work. So get a job to spend more time with the kids and everything will fall inot place.
2006-06-08 02:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by nomad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK..SO YOU'RE A MOM AND A WIFE..
THAT IS YOUR LIFE....
YOU'RE LIFE IS JUST DIFFERENT FROM YOU FREINDS OR FROM PEOPLE YOU WORK WITH...
EVERY PERSON HAS A DIFFERENT LIVES...
WITH ME..IM NOT A MOM OR A WIFE..
AND FOR A WHILE I THOUGHT I DIDNT HAVE A LIFE BECAUSE ALL MY FRIENDS ARE GOING OUT EVERY WEEKEND..BUT I WORK 6 DAYS A WEEK NINE HOURS EVERYDAY..AND BY THE TIME I WANT TO GO OUT IM TOO EXHAUSTED...
I REALIZED THAT THIS IS MY LIFE..BUT ONCE A WEEK I DO GO OUT WITH MY FRIENDS..AND TALK TO THEM ON THE PHONE EVERYDAY...
BUT YOU SHOULD REALLY LOOK AT YOUR FAMILY..
THAT IS YOUR LIFE ... APPRECIATE IT..
2006-06-08 02:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by *sunshyne* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out somewhere. Maybe you could try yoga to derail stress.And also enjoy whatever you are doing , let it be being a mother or a wife or anybody else. Try to enjoy yourself.My friend, you have a life, but im sorry you dont know that.
2006-06-08 01:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by RK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still say that the best place to get a life is to order one from the comfort of your own home. The Sears Roebuck catalog has several to choose from, oh and there is always Amway....
2006-06-08 03:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by math_prof 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I agree, that is your life.
You could try to find things to do with children that you also enjoy.
Although you should be enjoying every minute with them.
If you're overwhelmed with the housework and job, your husband could pitch in.
If you are both too busy, maybe you are living too large?
2006-06-08 04:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by astroservus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax. sit. and think.. what do you think is your purpose? do you think you are worthy to be given the chance to live while others are dying in cancer, starving and hurting? pray. and discover the world. no job, no love life, no money doesnt mean you are worthless. you have people around you and most of all you have a Christ who loves you and will never leave you when everyone did.
2006-06-08 01:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats very hard for u. i really appreciate the amount of work that working mothers put in. try spending quality time with your family and u will get ur reward one day
2006-06-08 03:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by midas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Starbucks vente black-eye: A large coffee with two shots of expresso added.
Another idea: reduce your intake of red meat, if you eat meat. Increase your consumption of fruit and vegetables.
2006-06-08 03:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by kurtrisser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋