Are people that get divorced good people or do they lack character and moral values?

Answer 1

Hah, of course they're good people, I mean, getting a divorce alone doesn't make you a bad person. True, I think some people give up too easily, maybe that's a character flaw.

Answer 2

No way does that make a person bad or do they lack character and moral values for getting a divorce. My fiancee is a good person and when he was 18 he got married to a self centered itch out of lust. He was married 16 years before leaving her.He dated her in school for a long time. He is a great guy, the woman he married has huge issues. She treadted him like crap, beat up on him (he doesn't beleive in hitting woman, so he let her), wouldn't let him have a T.V. or do anything he wanted. She is very controlling. This woman has deep, deep issues and I could go on about her, it would make a very interesting story, but I wanted to tell you about my parents. They also got a divorce. However I come a very screwed up family. My dad the drunk and my mom the self centered, every bow down to her or she makes your life a living hell forever. These people have big time issues and do lack moral values big time.She once told me that the only reason she married my dad was to get back at an ex-boyfriend, and my dad did tell me that they only knew each other for 2 weeks before the got married. They were married 22 years. Again that could be a very long interesting story. But my whole point is that there are 1000's of reasons people get a divorce and it doesn't necessary make them bad or that they are lacking something. Some marriages just are not ment to be. Some people just rush into things. Not very many people take the time to be together and get to know each other before they get married. My fiancee's case...he was young and stupid, his wife before they got married put on an act...like she was ohh so perfect. My mother and father... just a revenge marriage is all that was.

Answer 3

Sometimes one is obliged to get divorced. Like when you find out that your spouse is cheating on you.

But people these days have really gone mad, they get married in a rush without giving much thought to the matter and then break up just as fast for stupid reasons like getting annoyed by the snoring of one's husband. I even heard one case when a lad y divorced her spouse just because he was too nice to her.

People nowadays arent taking marriage seriously, they think it's a temporary thing which can easily end whenever they wish. Marriage is suppose to be the promise to be for each other at all times. It's a bonding of 2 people despite their differences.

Yes, I do think they lack character and have forgotten all their values and blindly take divorce as an easy way to end their problems. People should know that no one is perfect, and you can't always get a spouse who is exactly like you want them to be/behave.

Answer 4

Im divorced an do not lack character and moral values.
My ex husband was a good man when we were dating then after we got married he got violent and cheated often.
So i lack neither i have enough brain cells to know to get out of a situation like that. People dont get divorced just for the hell of it.
And Im a damn good person..............................

Answer 5

just because someone gets divorced does not mean that they lack character. there could be other issues that are unknown to people. if your husband/wife for example cheated on you and you gave him/her another chance and then cheated on you again would you really want to stay married to him/her? some people get married and think they are in love and then they lose that later on in the marriage. my parents got a divorce when i was nine. it was because my father chose his alcohol over my mother and i. getting a divorce does not make anyone a bad person. most people that get divorced have a legitimate reason.

Answer 6

just because two people divorce it does not been they lack character or moral values....there are perfectly good people out there who are married who just can not hack it together....I know people who have gotten divorced. Good people. But they had no business being married and where better off apart.

Answer 7

i am divorced. i am a good person, and no i do not lack morals and or character. i was devastated at my divorce. i never thought i would be one that turned into a statistic. i took a lot of crap from my ex also in the marriage, but i believed in for good and bad, till death do us part. my ex did not. i am somewhat offended by your question, i am hoping it's because you are either too young, or you have not been around divorce.

Answer 8

It depends on the situation. Maybe a woman is divorced from an abusive husband who nearly killed her and molested the kids. You can't lump every divorced person into a category of bad people. You should find out the circumstances before you make that judgment call.

Answer 9

As the reasons for divorce vary, it is impossible to answer this question. There are people who abuse marriage and divorce, changing partners as often as they change their clothes. There are others who struggle to build a good marriage only to be deserted by their spouse. Still others who have to leave a marriage because of abuse, dangerous, and destructive situations. So there is no way you can make a general answer on all people involved in divorce.

Answer 10

Sometimes people marry for the wrong reason. People also change over the course of a marriage and what they thought they wanted isn't there. Some get the notion that they can change the other person.

Those that are chronic divorcers are another matter.