I accepted the job offer and damn was i happy with my gf finally allowing me to and understanding my situation. But i was fooled, she broke up with me a day after i left. And she said she'll take me back again if i returns. I think i am happy with this new job. Im confused...? any sensible advice, please.
2006-06-08 01:14:35 · 9 answers · asked by mark the great 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Selfish...that's the appropriate word for your gf. I think you should rethink of going back to her. She's no good for you. Find someone else and continue with your job. If you're meant to each other, then destiny or fate will find its ways. Value what's really important to you now and your future. Ask yourself, is she really worth the love you can give? :D
2006-06-08 01:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by cernad06 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I would say that the best thing for you to do is...whats best for you. Good jobs are hard to come by and if she really loved you she would accept the fact that you have to take the job. Pretty much look for a woman who will support you and the decisions you make. Oh and congratulations on the new job!!!
2006-06-08 08:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ellexiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not selfish instead understanding and supporting each other, in her case she doesn't really love you, she's acting selfish and weird. She sholud even be happy for you. Dont go down into her level, if she really loves you she will understand and not make you choose between her and you job, that's stupid!
Go with your new job specially if you are happy. Another altenative, find the right girl for you honey. She's not alone, there's plenty out there, make her realised that.
2006-06-08 08:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's very selfish and doesnt want what is best for u, talk to her, tell her how u like the job and how good jobs are hard to come by these days cos i think u r doing this for the two of u, if she still insist u come back let her go, cos she will definitely dump u when u r jobless.
2006-06-08 08:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds really immature I would move on you can do better., Its your life if your happy with that job stay. The right women will come around :)
2006-06-08 08:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have two choices.
1. Walk away from the job and take you're gf. You'll be unemployed, but you'll have your gf.
2. Walk away from your gf. You won't be unemployed, but you'll be single.
Basically, you have to decide what's best.
2006-06-08 08:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by Shy n' Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the chick and keep the job .. Find a new girl who actually cares for you
2006-06-08 08:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That girl is soo playing you. If you've seen walk to the line it's like Johnny's old wife. You're her putty and she's molding you the way she wants to.
2006-06-08 09:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did it.Now live with it.
2006-06-08 08:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋