is it wrong to think of other women while, sleeping with your girl friend?

Question

while sleeping with my g/f i think about other women usually her friends or her sister is this wrong?

Answer 1

I feel if you sleeping with gf you should not think about other woman as you are cheating your gf.

Answer 2

I don't think it is necessarily wrong,but chances are,you are probably not in love with the girl you are with now. I don't know how old you are,but take a word from the wise. If you are thinking of another woman while sleeping with this one,you need to rethink your situation. I did the same thing and discovered I was in love with the one I was thinking of. She is a long way from me at the moment,but I am putting every effort I have in getting her with me. This leaves little time to do much of any thing else. I wasn't sure she thought the same way about me,so I sent her an e mail and came right to the point. She wrote back and said she loved me too. I don't know if your situation has any thing to do with love or not,but it sure sounds like it does. Hope I have helped...Keith... By the way....Try being a little cocky and funny to the one you decide on....You will be surprised at the results...

Answer 3

I think it's pretty wrong... you should be thinking about the woman you're with. Still, sometimes you can't help it. It's a sign that something's wrong with the relationship itself, and you need to sort it out in some way.

I remember one occasion, just kissing my ex, with my own eyes I saw the face of the other girl I wanted appear over hers. It was wierd.

Answer 4

Not wrong in the least! At least you're honest about it, unlike some people answering this who seem to like to make others think they are superior and squeaky clean!(impossible, unless they live apart from society and it's ability to corrupt) Your g/f probably does the same. It's just fantasy material and because you're used to your g/f. Doesn't mean you think less of her at all, bud!

Answer 5

If you just unintentionally think of them, it's natural for our conscious minds to accept abrupt thought-images. But if you willfully think about them for one reason or another, it is something that you should work on because it you may be disrespecting your girlfriend with that. If you want to get rid of those thoughts, I would suggest that you apply the so-called Thought-Erasing Technique. Every time that their thoughts enter your mind, willfully think of something else such as a beautiful scenery or a happy occasion that happened to you, etc. Do this as often as you think about them. When you do this often, you will be amazed as to how it works in diverting negative thoughts to positive things in an instant. If the reason for your thinking about those women is that you are attracted to them in whatever way or manner, it is unfair in so far as your relationship with your girlfriend is concerned. Try to be faithful to her both in your mind and heart if you really love her. That is a sure sign of respect for her and for your love each other.

Answer 6

i being a girl should say that if the girl sleeping beside u comes to know then its gonna b bad for u,but as long as she is not aware of all this then enjoy urselves dreaming or thinking about other women.but yes u need to give more importance to her.

Answer 7

The problem is your with a GF not a WIFE, so the sin is alerady acomplished. Congrats on your ticket to chill with the devil, but im sad for you.

Answer 8

It is a fantasy. I would not tell her this but no, it is not wrong and you ARE NOT ALONE. People do this all the time (guys and girls) -- she is probably doing the same thing!!

Answer 9

One for your own mind to make up here, most people think of others when they are away from their partner but only think of their partner when they are in bed etc.

Answer 10

no I often wonder woder what female members of the family want for birthdays etc while sleeping with my partner, thats only if shes asleep