This is a sincere truth should in case u are thinking it's a lie. and i will like to have your best and most sincere answers.thanx
2006-06-08 00:50:03 · 23 answers · asked by skimpypearl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thers nothing wrong with that
2006-06-08 00:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by km 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are more than one possibility going on. Here are some things for you to look for.
She may be chosing to wait for Mr.Right; or she might not like sexual play. There is nothing wrong with waiting for Mr.Right.
However, all normal hot blooded young women will want something else to "satisfy". If she is doing everything else to help herself...including masterbation by her boyfriend, and by her self when needed. About once a week, more or less.
If she is not interested in any genital stimulation at all, then there might be "mental" issues going on.
I'd hate to say that she was formerly moslested as a youth; but that does, in some, cause frigidity as an adult. (Yes it can go the other extreme as well).
This is not mental, but ALL people rate somewhere on the LIBIDO scale of 1-10 between about 2 and 9. Most people on the lower end LIE. Believe me...because they think there is something wrong with having less desire for copulation. It's hurts when two people are not on the same end of the scale, and causes relationship problems.
If all the signs are there that she really "wants it"...then I'd say she's saving it for Mr.Right or marriage.
The best way to find out something about a woman, is ASK!
One other possibiltiy is that her boyfriend is going for the "gold" too fast, without lots of foreplay, and THAT is a total turn-off.
OR she might just be looking for those special FOUR words "I'll LOVE YOU FOREVER.
I wish you love
STW
2006-06-08 01:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 24 & still a virgin maybe your freind his like me & feels that sex his somthing that should be special between husband & wife not just somting to regreat ive had many jokes made about me but ive stuck to my belives & know that some day mr right will come along for me
2006-06-11 03:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by tracy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are asking if there is a problem with someone actually smart, and may possibly give a s#&* about their life and future?
Kudos to your friend.....Kudos. No problem there sweetie. You stick with her as your friend, you may learn something....sounds like one smart cookie.
2006-06-08 01:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by beaufortgirl_1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like other people have said - I don't think its a problem
she's probably wanting to wait for the right time or the right person rather than rushing into something.
2006-06-08 01:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin at 22 is no problem.Maybe she is waiting for the right man,good for her
2006-06-08 00:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by liwaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well good for her that just means she has self respect for herslef and body and hasnt falling short of pressure, that right there is a true woman and she will give her self to someone when she is ready
2006-06-08 01:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not be ready or have found the right person... Or just isn't obsessed by sex...
Wouldn't say there was a "problem"... If she's happy...
2006-06-08 00:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just means she hasn't met someone she wants to have sex with. I was a virgin until I was 20, so it's not that uncommon.
2006-06-08 00:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by hkfilmfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is a strong women with self respect, and she is proud of herself.
The only problem is that other people don't follow her example.
2006-06-08 01:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by JennyPenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just waitin 4 da right person nothing wrong at all in fact respect it cos most gals have lost it already
2006-06-08 00:54:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋