how can i overcome my shyness?

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Answer 1

dont think shyness is some kind of shortcoming in ur personality.it looks beautiful on a gal.but no doubt,it shouldnt be in excess.if u feel its so,start facing the people around you.speek to them but only in ur confidence limits so that u dnt keep thinking afterwards that u did some blunder.that wud hamper ur confidence next time.take out from ur mind that u really have some reason to feel shy b4 others.if u have some complex,remove it coz u r unique n no one is like u.when u go out, be in active mood.keep thinking about the things around u .analyze them.dnt think how do u look but look at other things and people that how they look n what do they convey.that will keep ur mind and body busy in thinking smthing productive.automatically ur appearance will look smart n confident coz ur body manifests ur mind.think good look good.
all the best

Answer 2

I'm really shy myself. When we have to make speeches I stutter because I'm too shy and words won't come out of my mouth. It's really hard to overcome shyness but you can do it. I'm trying myself not to be as shy. It's good to be shy but not too shy because people get the wrong idea. If you're at work try and intiate a conversation with them. I'm trying to overcome my shyness and not be so shy too so I started by not distancing myself from people as much and when I go to the store I mention the weather to the cashier and tell them to have a nice day. Start small and work your way up, talking on the internet can also help you and I'm sure you're friends will be right there with you like mine are. It's not easy but you can do it

Answer 3

Social Anxiety And Shyness Cure : http://tinyurl.com/n3gszaJqdb

Answer 4

Now this worked for me: I was the kid in grade school who only had 2 friends....As I moved on 2 HS I decided I needed a change so I changed my appearance started wearing makeup changed my clothing style.....the whole 9 @ that point I began to show that I was confident in myself and I would just start appraoching ppl (@ my school of course) and igniting casual conversation.What I had to realize is that ppl do wanna kno me....I mean its me 4 crying out loud...but seriously u should have confidence in yourself-try to meet new ppl.....Now I personally have an upbeat personality which makes me approachable...This may not work for u but it is a try. One more & I will let u go...lets say ur w/ur friends @ urlocal mall and u and friends see someone u dont know engage in convo. w/them as though u r trying 2 see wassup and thats just howit works........................*simple*(i guess)

Answer 5

You must develop self - confidendence. you can start by having effective communication skills, or just simply be able to interact with others. make friends, communicate, enjoy. you don't have to worry because i believe nothing's wrong with being confident, just maintain it in a considerable level, not too much.

Answer 6

Set a goal for your self to meet a certain amount or talk to a certain amount of people a day this worked for me

Answer 7

Imagine yourself Queen of all that you see.Study what you see and ask yourself if its worthy to be in your kingdom .
Ask questions of your subjects to find worthiness.Remember a Queen would be direct and concerned about her subjects.Its a role play scenario that will work

Answer 8

Check out (http://www.reducingstress.net ) there is a lot of great content, information articles, expert advice and links on the subject there.

Answer 9

be all you can be.talk about things that you know and if people are interested they will listen. best way is to speak to a group.you will overcome being shy.

Answer 10

Get married, that allways brings out the dominant force in women.